Should I be angry or hurt over this?

[Evilbunnie]

My ex and I had a child together 14 months ago. He is engaged now to another woman. She posted a pic of my daughter on her Facebook page saying that its her step daughter. Im a bit jealous over that and I feel a bit hurt and angry over that. Should she have asked me first if it's ok to put a pic of my daughter on her Facebook page or what? Help. Or should I just suck it up and brush it off? Help!

[Jack]

Yes, I think she needs to ask me about that. You can ask her to take it off if you don't like it.

[Preru]

That's sad, yes she should've asked you first and if you don't like her posting a pic of your child tell her to take it down.

[Alex]

She has absolutely no right to post a picture of your child on her wall. If it really troubles you, ask her to remove it. If it were me, I certainly would.

[john]

If the child's father said it was okay, then it's okay.

It's not like you feared for the kid's safety, you're just jealous, hurt and angry, those are *your* problems, not hers.
Why are you trolling her FB page, anyway? Are you a glutton for punishment?

You need to get yourself under control, if they do marry, she will be raising your daughter, as well, and if you start making a fuss at every turn, they may well end up with primary custody and you'll be the one paying child support.

[fibonacci]

The way I see it your child is very fortunate to have someone who is proud of her and obviously has some love for her as a stepmother. My own stepmother was cruel to my brother and I and we were lonely children. Also I have a mother in law who has not treated me well over the years but she lavishes love on my grandchildren and I can handle that because I love them enough to want them to have all the love possible while they are on this planet. The jealousy you speak of is a selfish act (Not judging you, we have all felt that) but I suggest instead you think what is best for your child. Do not deprive her of real love when it is there for her. God bless you.

[Jay]

Hi Heather, sorry to hear about your situation. Obviously this is a natural reaction to the situation. I suppose really it's nice that she is taking an interest in your child, it's nice to know she cares. It would be terrible if it was the other way around. However there is a limit, as long as she isn't dominating your child and trying to take her over too much, then I don't see it's anything to worry about. At the end of the day this is only my opportunity, and you should only do what you you think is right.

I hope I helped in some way.

Best wishes. J

[Foofblah101]

Well, ur daughter IS technically her step daughter now so maybe not.... But yeah, i would talk about it with her or ur ex.