What Should I Do If He Likes Me?

[Lana]

I'm in Seventh Grade, and am thirteen years of age. This year we got a new boy at school named Christian. He's kind of girly, can't play any sports, is not cute, and is not sociable. He gave me a note that said he liked me and he had a crush..
I don't like him at ALL and like another boy named Matthew who is very likeable and popular and likes me back. Christain is obsessed with me and in L.A. he read a sentence to the class using a vocab latin root word "affection" and read "I have a great affection for a girl in my class." And he was staring at me..I wanted to crawl in a hole.
Everyone was pretending to hashtag things and saying like "Hashtag, I'm really bored." And Christian said "Hashtag, I'm totally in love with a girl in our class." Which really bothers me.
He stares at me a lot and is kinda creepy.
How should I let him off that I'm not into him? I don't want to ruin my relationship with Matthew by trying to be concerned over Christian...

[hollowdesk908]

you are 13 he don't like you you need to wait if not dance for him make it sexy

[Emily]

Just almost ignore and avoid him for instance if he texts you say you dont like him in that way and would rather be friends or tell him that but b straight forward otherwise he may not get the memo. Focus on Mathew maybe talk to him even more if Christian is around so hw knows that u r interested in someone else. Also try not to make straight on eye contact with him dont do anything that would make him think you like him but don't be mean.
Please answer my question I have a boy problem too!!!! :-D

[Carolynn]

Just tell him that youre not interested. Dont lie to him to avoid the embarrassment. Guys chase girls all the time. Im sure he not really "in love" with you.. probably justa little crush. Just say "im sorry, can you please stop saying you like me, and staring at me.. its embarrassing me and you. We can be friends if you want, but im not interested in that way".. as long as youre nice about it, he should understand, and be let down easily. Good luck!

[Bobby]

tell him you ruptured your eppidemaflax which therefore denying you the ability to create homoflunctious gunaflepidus which causes you to be very unstable and kill people

[BetteD19]

ya, im 13 in 7th grade and i had the EXACT same problem. so did my friend.

first, just try to ignore him. like really, if he comes up to u and talks to u, just say a few words and try to act disinterested. i mean, he already can probably tell that u dont like him, but u need to make the message CLEAR. when he talks in class and says something like that, just dont look at him, look away and act liek u DONT care.next time u get a note from him, u dont need to be angry, just act disinterested. just maybe glance at it or shrug, cuz hes probably watching to see ur reaction. he may really like u, but probably not. hes new, and he wants to get attention and be popular. hes probably trying to maipulate u and ur emotions because he thought it wud be fun and because u seem nice, but just DONT give him a reaction at all. ignore him, and dont be angry. try this for a few weeks, it ay take a little while to take effect.

if this doesnt work after a while, just send him an email or talk to him and just TELL him how u feel. but u need to have courage and really say it. u can say it nicely, but u do need to if it still isnt working. because he shudnt have the right to do that to u. i mean by now he shudve gotten the hint, but if he refuses to listen, u have to TELL him.

eventually everyone will just know that hes an annoyance by the way he wont stop pestering u. its NOT a gud way to make friends. from the way u describe him, he sounds like he cud have a confidence issue, which is why he probably wants to mess with u. dont worry! itll work! it did for me and my bff!

dont worry about this ruining ur relationship with matthew. if he is any kind of a nice guy, he wont mind. since he likes u, he might even think its kind of cute. he knows u dont like him, so i dont think he wud be jealous, unless it takes up ALL of ur time. so as long as u dont overobsess, i think ull be ok. u can talk to matthew about it, too. HOPE THIS HELPS! <3