am I actually in love?l or lust? what should I do?

[Minion]

I saw her about 2 yeara ago. Eventhough I am very shy to speak in real, I chated with her through facebook.. I dont know if I am in lust or love but after seeing her I never get thoughta about other girls. I just think about her and I just want to chat and chat to her. She finds out I am interested to her and she said she dont like me so she blocked me in facebook. I just cant stop thinking about her. My friends remind me of her everytime which keeps making me more to think about her. What should I do.

[Sam.]

Neither. Maybe lust. Definitely not love. More likely, you're infatuated.

There's really nothing you can do. She doesn't want you to talk to her. Though blocking you is pretty bitchy unless you were harassing her. If that's the case, stop. You won't win any girl's heart by harassing her.