careers,college,HELP?

[A]

im going into 10th grade from aug 27th and i have many questions to ask
details-i have a average gpa of 3.87-3.91 at the of freshman year and most likely that will be the gpa at senior year my strong subjects are social studies, and im average at math
1-i wanna be a programmer for game companies or programmer that makes applications/ ive been thinking about a chef i cook a lot and love it its my number one hobby and i might want to do it professional/ also i dont like any thing to do with biz like the tech side of things like managing web pages or if i had to do something in biz i would do marketing

2-what should i prepare for other then grades and what clubs or club in school should i join and what position should aim for in the club (president,vise-prez,ext)

3-what online sites should i use already i know of some that help me with home work and stuff i like yahoo-Q's but what sites give me knowledge from people that have been through it ive heard of a site that people give lectures through videos or recording do you guys know anything about it

4-can u guys give me collage prep things like what collages should i go to with my gpa and what collages should i not think about going to, also how to get reccomendations and internships at places so i have experience so collages will take me in

THANKS

[KAL]

1. You are going to change your mind about your career a lot. I've changed my mind about 4-8 times from the time I was in the 10th grade to now (college sophomore). Once you get to college and take different classes, you'll start to get an understanding.
2. You don't need a specific position in a club to appeal to a college. More than anything, colleges just want to see that your active in the school/community. You really should just choose clubs that interest you, because colleges just want to see what kind of person you are.
3. Go to khanacademy.org there are thousands of videos to help you with so many subjects!
4. Collegeboard is a good site to find colleges, collegeconfidential also helps you find colleges using your scores, etc. To get references for colleges, you will just need one or two teachers (depending on the college) to write recommendations. So, make sure you make good connections your junior and senior year with teachers!