Am i jerk? Need opinions (srs question, 10 pts for quick answers)?

[JerseyBoyManhattenMan]

I'm not looking for advice or anything i just purely want dead honest opinions from people who don't know me. Here is the story:

I was talking to this girl normally since i really like her as a person and therefore don't want to hook up with her. I told her that basically when there is a girl i like and can chill with i don't like to heavy flirt/hook up with them because i don't believe in committed long term relationships and hook ups lead to feelings and i don't want to lose said girl as a friend. Instead if i want to hook up or flirt with a girl i go full on hit or mis/ creepy or charming dude usually through social media.


Anyway if i want to try and hook up (i'm not some kind of sex fiend most hook ups don't go all the way anyway if i ever actually meet the girl) i just go for a girls i don't know and would never talk to again therefore risk no feelings on facebook or something. I tried explaining this is a compliment since i think the girl (the one i was talking to) is really awesome and i just want to chill with her and she went off on me saying i am a jerk and crazy for my way of thinking. I never thought what i do is wrong i actually thought i was being a good guy because i won't lead on girls i like as friends so i need honest opinions on this.
p.S im sitting here like a beta in my room with my phone deciding what to text as a response to her rant hence i need opinions.

[luvrats]

Most women think that men who ONLY want sex are creeps. If you don't LIKE the woman, you shouldn't want sex with them. Most women believe that sex should ALWAYS be romantic. They think that you should be making love, not just having sex. So the way you behave towards women could be considered calous, creepy, and not nice AT ALL.

Plus, she might have felt really insulted that you didn't WANT to make love to her.

[Bingalee]

Methinks she had designs on you.Let her sweat,at least you gave an honest opinion which is foreign to some female predators.I may not agree with your life choices but I defend your right to express them.If you must text her(I wouldn't) tell her you have a right to your own life choices and if she doesn't like that then it's her loss,not yours.

[Sapphire Perri]

Yep a total annoying jerk