Is she really my friend?

[klang]

I have only one friend from my old school, which we chat on Facebook. She always mentions how she has better friends than me and she's dating another girl, (she's bi) and saying they'll be together forever. She never carries the conversation and always posts pictures of her making out with her gf. When my mom was in a car accident and died, she said "ok". She never wished me happy birthday, even when I told her it was. I went to her birthday party and gave her a present. (At the party she completely ignored me and looked at porn with her gf). And just now she posted a status saying how she had a bad dream about her gf and her gf father died in a car accident and being dramatic. I wanted to punch her in the face. When I asked her if she wants to go my house she said her parents won't let her AND THEN SHE POSTS A PIC OF HER AT HER FRIENDS HOUSE! I have social anxiety so it's very hard for me to make friends at my new school.

[dragonf1y]

She is not your friend.

[Jayla]

aww baby, obviously her girlfriend has gotten in the way. was she like this before they started dating? she didn't care when ur mom was in a car accident, she doesn't want to hang out with u and lies that she can't when she really can, and she never wished u a happy birthday. shes definitely not a true friend. tell her that u don't really want to be friends anymore if that's what u feel is right. you will find better friends ok? you don't deserve that.

[Anime]

From the way you describe it, no.
She is not your friend and I feel sorry for you ever associating yourself with her. She sounds stuck up and rude. She lies to you, ignores you and worst of all, she wasn't even there for you when you probably (I'm assuming, sorry if I'm incorrect) needed her most. She sounds so disrespecting. I really think you should just move on, it sounds easier said than done, and trust me, I know. I've had to do it, but everything gets better, It sounds so cheesy but it's honestly true.

As for social anxiety, I'm not sure, I've never experienced anxiety but I have been shy? (I know they're two completely different things) but maybe in some classes you could just talk to a person sitting near you (assuming your school is kind of like mine) or try, just a little, join a club out or in school to get to know people.

I honestly wish you the best of luck. This girl is not worth your time.

[brooklyn]

wow, it must be very difficult for you. It doesn't sound as if she is a true friend to be honest. Sadly people change and move on from one another and its a shame that it has caused you to get hurt. I would say to be civil as not to cause arguments but to try and get out there more and meet new people like she has. I know how difficult it can be as I too have social anxiety, but everything happens for a reason and there is someone out there for everyone, may it be a boyfriend/girlfriend or just a friend. Sorry to hear about your mother, stay strong! Best wishes! Xx

[Jose Rivera]

Hey, I don't mean to just barge into your question. But if your reading this, can you help me out? I'm conflicted and I don't know, I guess just hearing other people's thoughts might help. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...051AA6xNLk and also, she's not a true friend. Just talk to her and tell her what your concern is.