Help! Big crush on someone of the same sex I've never met!?

[Your]

I'm 15 and an in the closet bi. So, I was creeping some "funny" pages on facebook and I saw this guy's profile picture in the comments, and I was like "wow he's cute", so I clicked on his profile. Wow.. once I saw pictures of him I felt like something in me clicked. I feel like I'm truly in love. I have never felt this way about anyone I have dated or spoken to or even seen before.

However, there's a few problems -- 1) he appears gay (I know this is stereotypical!!), but says he is not. 2) he lives like a two days drive away in the United States (while I live in Canada). 3) he's slightly younger than me.

I sent him a friend request but I think I creeped him out as he messaged me "do I know you?", then didn't accept the request after I told him "oh it was an accident, didn't mean to send that". However, I really feel like we were meant to be. I actually have no pictures of myself on facebook at the moment, so maybe that doesn't help? I don't know.. I've tried forgetting about him but that doesn't work -- I think about him a lot. I don't want to try communicating with him again because I don't want to creep him out any more. I am kind of at a loss.

I just wish that the circumstances were different. Any advice? ; (

[Tatum]

You can put a profile pic of yourself and message him. You can tell him that you've never met but u saw his profile and found him attractive. You can say I'm bi sexual but no one knows and if u have any attraction to me, id like to get to know you and your secret will be safe with me. If not, I'm sorry if I might have creeper u out, but maybe we can get to know each other. I hope this helps and good luck to you c:

[Ray]

Find out what he's into and what you and him have in common, post pictures of what he's into comment on his page saying something along the lines of "You like Arctic Monkeys too?" , (Comment something you both are into). Chance are he's going to respond, slowly get to know him. Humor is the best way to friendship joke about something funny not hurtful, like saying 'gay' jokes are hurtful he might not know you like the same sex but if you know he's does then leave a few hints maybe say "That's so Emma And Julia." , sarcastically. Also wanting to get to know someone does not make you a creep. : )