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Abbie · 02-19-2014, 12:50 PM

I am 20. . .and I had a crush on this 32 year old. We go to the same gym, that's how I got to know him. I developed a crush on him, told him how I felt. He always flirts with me etc. He is taken. I no longer have a crush on him but I think he still thinks that I do. So basically we've had a few points where we didn't speak to each other because of my feelings for him. He enjoys me flirting. He told me that if he was single and a bit younger he would go out with me. However, when I flirt, he always tells me nothing is gonna happen. . even though he poked me in the breast. . .he seems more, hard to get. He won't accept my friendship request on Facebook. Sometimes he will be really flirtacious. . .other times he will tell me that I never give up flirting and that nothing will happen.

So I was walking down the street today and I saw his car in traffic. I think he was with his girlfriend. . .but he was avoiding making eye contact with me. I walked past his car and I turned around. . .he was staring at me. Why? Confused

YES I know there is a 12 year age gap. . in my opinion age is just a number. .if the gap doesn't bother me it shouldn't bother you so please don't comment because I am not interested in negative comments about a 12yr age gap! .i no longer have a crush on him, but I thought it was kinda weird. Is there a possibility he was/is attracted to me?

Dean · 02-19-2014, 12:55 PM

there is nothing wrong with age but he was staring at you because he thought you was going to speak to him and make problems for him and his girlfriend

no you say you dont have feelings for him so stop flirting with him act normal and he will come to see you are not into him anymore he wont add you on facebook because he dont want uncomfortable messages he will have to explain to his girlfriend as she might check his facebook page

Ricosd · 02-19-2014, 01:04 PM

Yes, he's attracted to you. Maybe age gap doesn't matter to you but he's taken, and he's serious on that matter though he shows attracted to you. He's committed to the person he loves! And he's true to that!