Should I add him back on Facebook?

[Chris]

So my boyfriend of two and a half years broke up with me a month? or maybe a bit more ago. After the break up he wanted to stay friends and he said something like "That's why I've kept you on Facebook" HOWEVER after our beautiful break up, he left himself logged into my laptop and I saw two sentences between him and a random girl about them hooking up. This was i think a day after the break up. So it turned ugly. Although I did apologize for seeing those sentences because I felt like I'd invaded his privacy but look it didn't end great. Um so what I did was remove him from Facebook straight away and we haven't had contact since. Now I'm in a place where I've realized that anything negative that happened I attracted to myself through my own thoughts and choices. And I'm in a good place and honestly I'm very grateful for this whole experience I've learnt a lot. I really did enjoy my friendship with my ex BUT here's my dilemma, I don't know how the mind of a guy works and I don't know how they react to different situations. Do you think he'd react badly and just go "nup block her" if I added him back. I'm not gonna try and talk to him etc... Just as a gesture of... we can be friends in future. I feel that if I make an effort it'd be a nice thing to do? I don't know You tell me
Yeah I know, honestly we had a pretty freaking awesome relationship, we were planning to live together I think it was in the last week he decided he wasn't happy any more and that he "was ready to go out and be wild" in his words. I think I actually did contact him once to ask him if he wanted to come to my godmothers funeral and he declined very nicely. But yeah otherwise I'm respecting his space.

[Edwin]

Follow your heart.

[Cold]

It hasn't been that long. Personally, I wouldn't be rushing too add him back so soon. If you truly have no intention of winning him back then you shouldn't feel a need to rush to extend the olive branch. He'll probably assume you miss him like crazy and are hoping to get back together so again if that's not the message you want to convey, hold off.

[Candy]

Well, it would be a little awkward to re-friend him. If I were you I would wait a little bit longer to friend him again. He will probably never friend you because you are the one who de-friended him. So, yeah, you should give it a few months. It's crazy how you two were together for two years and you haven't kept in touch at all since the breakup…that's messed up.

[?]

Your stupid why would you ask random strangers on yahoo answers this question its ur choice if you want to add him again on facebook its not the strangers choice.