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how can i forget my bf? answer pls i beg u guys?
02-20-2014, 01:31 AM
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how can i forget my bf? answer pls i beg u guys?
I love my bf alot but now he doesn't care for me,he all the times ignores me and always talks with his female friends on facebook,we have been together since 11 months and everything was perfect,he used to say that he loves me alot and he will die without me but now he is not the same,he told me that he also wanted to have very very gf but now he found me and because i am perfect so he doesn't care for my status,i am middle class,he now dont give me respect as he would give to me initially , he has one female friend who is really rich and beautiful and he once said to me in fight that his female friend more to him than me,i m devastated,i love him alot and wait for his texts the whole day but he hardly texts me in 2,3 days, i also want to become rich,he is 20 and iam 16 years old
i need help? What should ii do now? Should i move on or if i move on so how can i forget him cux its so tough,i tried it alot of time but i get weak,i asked him for break up but he said he loves me alot

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02-20-2014, 01:42 AM
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you love him that's why he ignores. You ignore him and move on in your life. Don't loose your self respect for someone who don't even care for you.

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02-20-2014, 01:54 AM
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Trying to forget about someone is very hard to do its not instantly it takes time. To help me get over my ex I went out and listen to my music and I would run and do heaps of laps it would get my mind off everything and I would be forcing and getting fit and forcing myself to do better you should really try it, it helps alot Smile and your bf if your to are always talking 24/7 then why not stop and talk to him every couple if days guys like to have time with there friends and it gives him time to miss you! Good luck Smile
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02-20-2014, 01:58 AM
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OMG I want to cry for you...because you're being a complete idiot 16 to 20 yeah that isn't going to work you were young and beautiful and he should have known better. Go out and live your life, don't sit around waiting for a guy who actually tried to hurt you he obviously sound like a d*ck but he's the "love of your life" for now and your oblivious to it. FIrst love as well? You need to move on and focus on you, your 16 be selfish because you're still a kid, a teenager you need to realise that at this age we're a little selfish and relationships are most likely not going to work out. If he's your first he'll always be there but in time you'll find other people who you'll love and may hurt you till you come to the one who will never want to hurt you, who will love you and not take it back when you least expect it. Time sucks but sometimes it's worth it.
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02-20-2014, 02:00 AM
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Hi
Im a guy completely in love with my girl. I was in a similar situation as you. We take our girls for granted. We think we can never lose them so wevkinda younknow, pay less attention. You need to remind him what he has, and what he can loose.
Maybe like not threaten him but tell him you deserve better, if he doesnt step it up, ur walking out.
If he changes he cares for you. And if he doesnt uts ur sign to move on.
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02-20-2014, 02:08 AM
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Once you have decided its over the best thing you can do is to ignore him. Block his number on your phone, remove him from all of your social media, and avoid him whenver you are out. In those moments when you feel weak and start thinking about going back to him conciously remember how badly he treated you and know that you deserve to be treated much better than he has treated you.

He may come to and say that he will change. Don't believe him. He is just saying that to get you back and he is not going to change. Trust me on this, people don't change, and even if they do it takes time and the change is only slight.

Surround yourself with family and friends that love you for support to get you through this tough time. Find things to do that make you happy to pass the time. You can probably use a little happiness right about now. Try to get back to who you were before you met him, you were probably a lot happier then.

Its going to be tough, but it will get better. Good luck
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