Why does my boyfriend have so many female friends on facebook?

[Maddie]

I don't know if he adds them or they add him but he has around 150 friends and 90% are women. I was honestly pissed off and I'm feeling very insecure. I don't understand. Why would he have female friends? They really aren't even attractive to be honest. He's the one that always asks me if I go out if I went out with a guy or girl, I ask what the difference is he says "there's a difference" meanwhile he has all these women as friends on Facebook? I rarely go on Facebook but I wanted to add him just cause. I'm feeling annoyed insecure and pissed off. I accused him of cheating on me the other day because he is always sleeping exhausted from work and I felt neglected and he told me I need to trust him etc. But after this honestly I'm pretty annoyed. I am way better looking than any of these girls he's Facebook friends with.

I sound so dumb I bet. What is wrong with me? How can I try to rationalize all of this? He tells me he is not cheating and he wouldn't want to. I honestly feel like dumping him this is an added reason.

[almedin]

They are his friends...

[Jessica Nacirema]

Well, you said yourself that you feel like dumping him, and this is another added reason. There is a problem with your relationship, and the little things are now starting to get to you.

Be itself, having a lot of friends of the opposite sex isn't something to worry about. You're just finding new things to bother you.

[Bitter Joy]

You are either too insecure to be in this relationship, or this relationship just isn't going to work out in the long run. You are the same girl who always asks questions about the same boyfriend liking skinny girls, when you yourself are more curvy.

If you always have to question his motives and what he does (an obvious sign of mistrust) then you shouldn't be with him. I'd rather have no relationship than one that stresses me out constantly.

Your partner is allowed to have friends.

[Misogynist]

Its because he is cheating on you i told you that last time you came on here..

Im telling you i know because i did the same thing..my ex would get mad and erase the females and i would just re add them

If you don't want to listen its your fault.

[lazybones]

You are insecure when it comes to this relationship.

[Danielle Mena]

Men and women in relationships are allowed to have friends of the opposite sex, but 150 friends and 90% are women is a red flag to me.....first, who has 150 FRIENDS? Someone who just wants to collect them and be viewed as mr popular maybe...and 2nd, why are they mostly females....? Common sense is telling me something is very very wrong here.......if you feel stressed, paranoid, and you dont feel good about yourself in this relationship LEAVE it...being "alone" is better than being in a relationship you are more miserable in than happy.

[Tyler]

I have 250ish friends on facebook. You know how many I actually talk to? Four. Chill.

[Regan Dee]

I dont think it's a problem to have friends of the opposite sex. Especially on facebook because it's just facebook...doesn't really mean anything.

HOWEVER, people are missing what you said "he is th eone that always asks me if I go out if I went with a guy or girl" and "there's a difference".

If he wants his girl friends on facebook...well he is going to have to accept you haveing guy friends.

I mean, he is the one saying "there's a difference" between whether you went with a guy or girl...so...what does that mean for him? It's a two way street and if he can't hack it then he needs to grow up.

If you usually are insecure like other answerers said, maybe it's what he does to make you insecure?! I dont know enough but if he is fine with his female friends but questions you...then I would say he is one insecure little man. Trying to make himself feel better with his "friends" on facebook (how lame of him anyway), and trying to get to you by rubbing it in your face. Maybe he is threatened by you and thinks you are too good for him so needs to play games?