Your opinions on this?

[itsgamblintime]

She moved away 2 years ago ending the relationship for grad school and not wanting a LDR. She started dating someone new almost right away which is her MO, so really not a shocker, but it still hurt like hell to hear about it and see pics. I left her alone after that, but she'd always be on my Facebook wall doing something, sent me photos of her cat twice, a random text here or there. I pretty much ignored most of it because I was mad at her. From the sounds of it they broke up at least twice and then she was on multiple dating sites for several months and then he reappeared in her profile pic right before the holidays last year and her dating profiles vanished. At that point, I disabled my FB account. I couldn't see her with some dbag in mirrored aviators sunglasses that looked like a tool!

I sat down and wrote her a letter telling her how I felt about her, how I missed her, told her why I ignored what she was doing, and how much it hurt to see her with another guy. I sent this letter from my school email account and never opened up that account again.

Almost 4 months later, I opened up my AOL account one day and there was an email from her entitled "question" and it was sent to me that very morning! I couldn't bring myself to open it though.

A few months later I caught her looking at my LinkedIn profile. Nobody looks my linkedin!

I feel like maybe her email to me was good and I never read it, but then again my negativity leads me to believe it is bad, so don't open it!

I mean why send it to my AOL? I never even use that account anymore!

Many have stated that she wouldn't write to me 3-4 months later if she was moving forward with that guy at school, also she probably sent something to my school account but since i never opened that account, she tried my AOL. They say if she did indeed do that, if it was bad, she wouldn't email me something to my AOL with a question. She would assume I read it and that was the end of it.

I'd like your opinions on this and if you can, please explain your reasoning.

[tawnya]

I think that you should get the courage and open up the email on your AOL and see what she has to say or said. You never will know and it may be something good or bad but isn't it bothering you enough to know what she said or didn't say.

[DD]

Dear itsgamblintime, You Alias here on yahoo says it and it gives you the answer you are looking for. IT'S GAMLBIN TIME. Well from that itself take a gamble open that email you will get the true facts that you are looking for. LDR take lot's of effort and trust in order for it to succeed if there was no trust no love from the beginning they will never be any in the present or the future. THAT IS WHY SHE DID NOT WANT A LDR SINCE MOVING OUT TO GRAD SCHOOL SHE FIGURED SHE WILL FIND SOMEONE WITH WHOM SHE WILL HAVE MORE IN COMMON WITH. She went to multiple dating site right after she broke up with you. What do you think she did that if there was true love from the start she or you as it seems will never move that fast to find another man if she ever had anything for you then before or after. Open that email read it trust me the answers you are looking for are there. Don't beat yourself over her she was not yours from the start. She ended 2 year , she left you ending whatever you both had. to her she moved on to you just move or do the same. If it was meant to be one never know but do not put your life on hold hoping. one never knows if it was meant to be it will so open that email see what is in it your answer is there. Good luck Best wishes I hope she has good news telling she made a mistake but you will never know unless you open it. Going and checking your LinkedIn profile, and as you said Nobody looks my LinkedIn! Well she is looking what did you do with yourself from the time you got separated from her may be she has her own LinkedIn profile look her up see what it say that will also give you better picture what you are dealing with. Since ones profile on LinkedIn give you so much information what is going on with their life. Good luck Best wishes I hope all will work out as you want but one never knows. OPEN THAT EMAIL LOOK FOR HER PROFILE...
PS: you said"Almost 4 months later, I opened up my AOL account one day and there was an email from her entitled "question" and it was sent to me that very morning! I couldn't bring myself to open it though". There is a question for you there needed to be answered may be she is thinking in committing into LADR with you could that be the question? Could she have thought about yours & hers 2yrs. Relationship and wanted to give it a try? you will never know unless you open that email, and read it. Your negativity leads to negativity one never knows open it read it the answer is there.