Is my girlfriend cheating?

[Alan]

This is what she does that makes me confused:

She deletes every sms and email that she receives. That includes whatsapp sms and every other form of sms. She said it was because she is compulsive.
She doesn't like when I ask what she did that day, and if I am not OK with "woke up, went to school, and ate." Then she gets pissed off.
After one of our fights, she deleted her Facebook account. And once she even said that she would not share her password with me again if she ever decided to open it again.
She keeps no files or pictures on her laptop. She transfers them to a couple flash drives and hides them in her stuff.
She has lied to me before. For example: she said that she deleted pictures from her exs, but she actually had in one of her flash drives. And she said that she didn't talk to any men on Facebook, but I actually saw she chatting with a man and she deleted the conversation think that I didn't see, and then lied to me saying that she didn't talk to no man.

If I ask her to help me trust her more by saying that the thinks that she does is not helping me trust her. She says that I am trying to control her, that I am smoldering her, that I need to work in my trust issues.

In the good times we play around and everything, but I just can't get over about the thought that she acts like a person that is cheating.

Am I crazy for thinking this? Would you few that her actions are normal and just ignore it? Please give me advice. HELP!

[lowfood230]

she is. I mean i would honestly just give my password away only IF i have nothing to hide. Why wouldnt i, anyway?!
She is definitely hiding something, and its something related to her talking to either her exes or some guys you dont know about.
Ask her to open her account infront of you.. if not, then i hope you know what to do.

[dana]

She is most likely cheating. A girl can't be that crazy over something silly like that. She wants to hide it from you really bad.
I am so sorry about her, but I don't think it's a good idea to stay in a relationship with her. It's definitely not good to trust her easily after you witnessed what she's been doing lately. Good luck!

[marcus]

"And once she even said that she would not share her password with me again if she ever decided to open it again. "

She is a damn fool to EVER share it with you to begin with!

Do you have an engagement ring on her finger or are you married? Then she can talk to whomever she damn well wants to.

You are obsessive and possessive and YOU will lose her.

[Nicole]

Whether she's cheating on you or not, this relationship is no good. Let's say she isn't cheating on you, she's just really private. Do you really want to be with a person who you know absolutely nothing about? You know her while she's physically present with you, but it sounds like she doesn't want to share any of her life with you outside of the time she spends with you. She doesn't want to share the simple little details of her life with you. It sounds like she won't allow you to know who her friends or acquaintances are. She doesn't want you looking at any personal thing she may have on a computer or phone. Even if she is not cheating, she still doesn't want you to interfere in her life.

I say just cut your losses. She won't change easily if it is so important to her to keep you out of her business. Find a girl who wants to share her entire life with you, who isn't afraid to share things with you.

[Billy]

Calm down. You are very very compulsive. You want her to write down an essay of what she does everyday. You have her password, you want to have access to every single part of her life, such as her past and present. She will not delete all her past because she is with you. You are a part of her life, not her life, accept that.

Whatever you do, there are much more possibilities to cheat on you if you are that compulsive than if you leave her free space. You came after all these guys or her friends. It is a miracle she's still with you. So calm down. Leave some more free space.

As for cheating, it's very possible. She tries to hide something from you, desperately. My tip, end this relationship. It leads nowhere. You get angry with her, she cheats, you want the absolute control, she 's not to be trusted. End this.