Help, I really like a guy that's really far away.....(4'753 miles)?

[anono]

Okay so heres there deal, i met someone online i wont say which website but it's kinda like Omegle but not really anyway this guy is like 4'000 miles away and i really like him alot. I know for a fact that he MUST have some feeling for me because of how often we skype and how we talk to each other sometimes but he told me that he doesn't really do long distance relationships. So i tried to not like him bu I don't see myself just forgetting about my feelings for him anytime soon because i think about him ALL THE TIME. and i find myself on his profile on facebook alot...(Creepy i know. ) I just don't want to forget his face and anyway. And its not even that i'm obsessed with his looks its just that his personality is perfect and it makes him attractive to me. I feel like he's trying to friendzone me but dear god I cannot be just a friend to him i just cant. It's everything or nothing. Sometimes he wont talk to me for like a whole week and its just it kills me the talks to me like day after day after day and it kills me! Hot and cold he is. I know i should probably just try to not pursue this at all but my heart says otherwise. I feel like I'm obsessed with this dude and I really dont want to be...It's like wanting something/someone so badly it hurts. i've tried to ignore him because i honestly dont like the feeling of wanting someone so far, knowing i cant really have them. but i fail at ignoring him cause i like him so much...I feel like I'm trying to quit some sort of drug...

Im sorry that this isn't really a question more like needed advice. How do i go about this?

Part of me just wants to go for him anyway and persuade him in to a Long distance relationship.
Do I at least tell him that i like him? :<

[I.]

stop talking to him.

[Chris]

No just no...It wont work out at the end even as much as you try to make it work

[Jacob]

Yeah, just tell him how you feel in a sweet way, like what you said just now, it was really sweet and it could get to his heart and show him you really really like him. Long distance relationships are very tough though, you guys can't meet again and again obviously so it's really hard to stay in a relationship just like that. Hopefully if you tell him you like him he'll show some feelings back and you two can get something together. I was once in a situation where I didn't want to date online with someone because I just really thought it was lame, but the girl I meant had such a great personality to me and I was with her like everyday and she started to show me signs she liked me but I just tried to ignore them. Eventually though one night she asked me if I liked her and it was obvious to me she liked me, I told her I just don't date online but we can still be friends. The next day though I couldn't stand not being in a relationship with her because she was perfect to me so I just asked her out and she said yes. So you should probably just try to do what she did, try to let him know you like him, and then just start poking around the relationship bubble with him to see if the question pops, as in try to remind him about you two as a couple time to time to see if he eventually breaks and ends up asking you because of how much he likes you. But if he doesn't like you then, sadly there'll be no chance, but things are meant to be, that's why they happen, you will find someone very great eventually.