Need advice! Help please?

[Amethyst]

Okay So I had a breakup with my ex,we were together since 4 years.
I'm in a relationship with a guy since a couple of months,yes he's sweet. spiritual guy.
He's over possessive,insecure,doesn't let me have facebook,email account,no friends,no hanging out,etc. He's very controlling. I am already fed of that control over me. I'm an outgoing person,I like to travel,hang out,etc. But he isnt. he stays with family,doesnt go out,never had friends,and has a very typical stupid mind. He always looks whats bad and whats good. He never even watches movies. He considers everything as negative,wrong,sin type. I'm not even allowed to use slang words infront of him. Like,Oh fu**. :| when I ask him what his problem is,why he never lets me use fb,go out,etc,he says I'll go away if you ask. I mean,is watching wwe evil? I think not! Is it evil to admire a handsome singer or actor? NO! every girl has a crush on actors and singers,but he says its wrong. When I compliment an actor or Randy orton as my fav,he simple walks away.
He never went for movies,never went in any cafe with friends,he has no friends actually. Im the opposite. I like going out.but after the breakup with ex,I didnt go out. so I convinced my bf to go out for a movie.
He constantly critisizes me. Im very different from him,he's religious,im an agnostic atheist. hes like 'how are you walking,why are you speaking so loud,your voice is yuck,you're embarrassing me,look at your hair,your face looks sick,look at your teeth,why are you always so expressive,learn to be calm,dont move your hand that way,dont speak that way,dont watch this movie..how dare you offend my faith (I never really offended.I just shared my views.Im very respectful towards people.)
He never even lets me share my opinions. I asked him his opinion about gays and stuff,he said how dare you speak this wrong thing. whenever I say something,he ends it saying you gave me a headache you're so negative!! I like to talk,express opinions,but here,I just cant. whatever I do,say,think of is considered as negative,evil,bad,etc.
He always wants to make out, Honestly,I hate making out, Its just gross to me. He wants me to lose my v**ginity with him BUT I WON'T because I dont want to,Im not ready. Im just 18 and he's 17.
But he keeps pressurizing me to make out and stuff but I never give in. I always dont do what I dont want to. I dont let him dominate me to that extent that I lose my independence.
(I am very pretty,almost the entire school is behind me,im veryyy skinny but guys are always asking me out and thats what makes him even more angry.) Im cool with he having girl buddies,i am cool if he wants to party,go out,flirt with girls,im ok if he watches porn,plays games 24 7. IM not insecure,I believe in independence and trust. But he says 'thats your fault,I dont need friends,girls,porn,hangouts,party and space'
Who wouldnt want a non girly trusting,pretty,smart gf except this guy.
What should I do? sorry for the boring long description. thanks

[burger]

I didn't even read your whole post to know what you need to do..
Leave. Period.
No one should control you except yourself and your parents
Get out now if it's only been a few months and it's happening you better believe it gets worse

[Jacob]

Honestly you need to get the heck away from him! Sorry but it is true. If a boy like him is going to criticize you like that and shut you down like you are nothing than he needs to be alone and deserves no one. You sound very sweet and deserve better than him. Those kinds of guys will change your life forever and will make you afraid your entire life which is why I am telling you to get out now. I am a christian and I disagree with everything that he has been doing to you. Guys are supposed to treat ladies like yourself with respect and tell you how pretty you are and how you are such an amazing person. That is even in the Bible so if he is going to do that to you kick him to the curb. Tell him how you feel and show no sympathy towards his little mind games, just say is the way it is, and get out of his life and get him out of yours! Sorry to be harsh and remember this is just opinion, it is your decision... but If you do dump him do it in person! Good Luck

[Dollysharma]

Breakup .....after ol u have ur own life to live he can't be controlling u......im sure u will get sumone better

[Katherine]

Oh my God run away and never look back! People like that are psycho. Next hell have you doubting yourself and making you a self conscious mess. Stand up to this loser and find someone you have more in common with and who loves you for who you are!

[Rooth]

Break up............ Love your life..... live in your own life.....

[Shaun]

Its Really Bad When Some One Need to face their Partner Criticism We are now in open World We had Our Own World And Follow Fundamental right to Do what you want So I Finally Suggest you to Left that guy and Enjoy your Independence day with Friends And Family ....GOD BLESS YOU

[dating]

You're incompatible.

Leave him before you become like him.

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