Should I send a friend request to a girl that I liked a long time ago?

[Joseph]

When I was 10, I met a girl that I really really liked at school. She was nice to me but we never talked a lot. I moved to Georgia right after we have gotten to know each other for a few days. I am 19 now and i found her on Facebook. Yes, I admit that I was stalking, but I have been thinking about her from time to time when we were apart. Maybe once a week for about 9 years. It may seem obsessive, but my mind wanders a lot. Anyway, should I send her a friend request and explain who I am? I dont think she knows that I like her. Will it seem creepy of me to do it?

[Varun T]

No just say her hi and send her the friend request and tell her that you like her, this is how it will work and if you really like her then make her feel that you really like her.

[Rebecca]

Yes send her a friends request

[owlxxeyes]

Def send her a friend request! She probably would love it. I was going to do the same thing to a boy I met when I was like age 5 and he was my first best friend. The only problem is that he does not have a Facebook! So I would go ahead and friend her. That is so awesome

[Judy]

You weren't stalking. People think about their past and wonder what ever happened to their old friends from the past. That is natural. Mention some fun things you did. Tell her you were just remembering when you lived there. Ask her about people you knew in common. If she seems interested in talking to you then do. Otherwise, back off.

[Rajesh Kochhar]

Go ahead. Make it matter of fact.