I called a girl ugly , and she found out , and now i feel really bad ?

[Rob]

So essentially what happened was this , i was on a Facebook group chat and i sad the following about this girl "she's kinda ugly etc... and then she got invied to the convo and saw it . I apologised , i dont know if it was a lame apology , but i said the only reason i called you ugly was becuase my friends think i like you , i do but not in that way , i said to terminate their beliefs . I dont know if that was a but excuse or not . And i dont know what do to ?

YOu see the reason i care so much is becuase i recently got accepted into a selective school and ill be starting next year , and she's the only person from my school who's coming . I'm not very close to her or anything like that , infact i barely talk to her . But im scared she might tell people about me and what i said at my new school and everone will think im a dick . I dont know what do to right now , i need help .i didnt really mean those comments im not such a dick to do that .
and the think is she's not ugly my excuse was actually true but itssound lame from her perscpective

[Blue Planet]

good, you've learned a lesson

[elizabeth]

I hope you've learned from this. Never call anyone ugly, ever. It'll catch up with you sooner or later.

[Comotellamas]

If you didn't mean those comments then you shouldn't have made them. Weak apologies don't fix people's self esteem (especially a girls, which is fragile) and the shittiest thing to do is call someone ugly! You deserve whats coming to you, sorry if I seem harsh.

[ella]

This is the thing that you always need to remember and it is something you can say to her for a more sincere apology ...
think about it ... everyone has a different physical preference some giys like small girls some like nig some like blonds some like tall some guys can see are not bothered by things like acne some guys are .. given that everyone has a different physical preference the concept of "ugly" does not actually exist .. you might think shes ugly but trust me there are guys that thinks shes gorgeous ...
I would apologixe and add that all you ment is she isnt your type but that doesnt mean she isnt a good person and you want to get to knownher

[Chris]

Man you apologized already, now you're worried about what people are going to think about you before they even acknowledge your existence. You're lame, quit trippin

[GuitarHero]

No one is ugly we just all have different tastes and media brainwashing one type of white western beauty or look is stupid. I hope you realise that such remarks can be with a person for life and I hope she doesnt cry over it. Next time apologise face to face and be careful what you say in future. Im sure youre not perfect looking as no one is and just because there will be guys better looking than you doesnt mean its ok for some girl to say nasty things about you too, so remember that.

[Andrewab]

Step 1) learn a damn lesson

Step 2) Don't be a pussy and give her a half ass apology over the Internet. You're going into college and you need o be a man. Accept that you were wrong and accept responsibility for what you did. Go up to her face to face, privately of course, and apologize sincerely and explain why you said that and you didn't mean it. Get her a card, or flowers. Or chocolates and be nice about it.