Help with Personal Issues?

[XboxGamer2012]

Okay, just before I would like to say that I know it is sad to be asking this on and online question forum but I really need some advice so do not point out the obvious to me!

Anyway, basically I like this girl but my feelings are mixed, because I have told her I liked her and she says I'm sweet but she is not looking for a relationship...then a week later she posts a status saying she wish she could have a caring boyfriend. Don't get me wrong, I am caring, I mean sometimes I don't show it but I am very caring and sweet towards girls if they give me the chance.

This girl that I like is amazingly beautiful, I like everything about her, her personality, her everything! there is one problem though, I am not amazingly good looking. In most peoples eyes, I'm either average looking or just above average I think. I really like her but I just don't think I have any more chance with her because I don't have the right looks.

The other problem for me is that I talk to her mostly online, on facebook, (She is in my school) and we can take for a while but recently she has started to not reply to me, and I am starting to think she is getting bored. I am not sure I have a good chance with her is my problem. Also, I think most people in the year are my friends but I am not part of the popular group, as in most people notice me and like me but I just don't hang out with the popular group.

I don't really know how to talk to her and tell her my feelings anymore. I just want to tell her all my feelings for her but I am worried if anyone finds out they will find out what a soopy loser I am! Please someone give me some advice!

[Rick]

Ask her out to go see a movie with you, if she declines your offer then that means she's not interested. Move on. Girls are real bitches.

[SGM]

"...but she is not looking for a relationship..."

She is NOT interested in dating you. Don't try to wait her out or complain about how she should notice you. She has ZERO interest. She was just rejecting you in a polite way.

The only thing that will make you a loser is if you continue to go after her. She is a complete waste of your time and energy.

[â™ Merlin â™]

is there any chance her parents dont allow her to date?

it would account for her saying she isnt looking for a relationship (she was too embarrassed to say her parents wont allow it)
it would account for her posting she wishes she COULD have a boyfriend
and it would account for her having limited online time to talk to you, (they monitor her net use)

[Stephanie]

Ask her out if she says no it's not the end of the world and you know to move on and she is not interested

[Chris Sellick]

Here's sopmething you need to know about girls.No matter which goirls you like you should only ask out a girl who is interested in you/attracted to you to start with.To tell if a girl is interested in you,notice wther she looks at you and smiles at you.Or,does she not nitice you at all?If a girl doesnt notice you/doesnt look at you it means they arent interested in you so leave them alone.If a girl looks at you and smiles at you it means they are interestedcin you so go up to her and chat with her.Get to know her.Thats how its done no matter who they are or whether you're in love with them.

You dont tell her your feelings because you dont know her enough,you havent spent any time with her.Get off the computer and talk to her in person.If you start expressing your feelings you are asking for rejection.You have to be in a relationship before you start expressing your feelings.

[dandls_99]

She doesn't want you that is why she doesn't reply. Probably makes fun of you behind your back showing her other friends your messages or worse yet when her message goes off looks at it and says oh he is such a loser. Start trying so hard dude get with someone that fits your own image and treat her right. This will be the girl for you in the long run. This other girl sounds like she knows she is good looking and will talk to you when not one person is around so she doesn't get associated with you.

[Freedom]

When a someone says they aren't ready to be in a relationship, this is just a nice way of saying "i'm not interested." You will never find out why she's not interested --unless you ask her directly and she has enough guts to tell you the truth, but this is doubtful. Don't worry about your looks/popularity, BUT, make sure you are clean, groomed, clean breathed and take pride in your appearance --every day, and you'll be alright. Be yourself, unless of course you are sarcastic, needy, pitiful, vengeful, in which case you need to change this asap.

you could ask this girl out -but tell her it's just to blow some time and see a movie together as friends, this way she doesn't feel any pressure. maybe if she hangs out with you she'll get to like you. But sweetie, nice pretty girls will come and go throughout your life; don't bother with a girl who doesn't want to give you the time or day --try and hook up with some other girl --I gaurantee this will make the girl you like reconsider you, at least a little.

Oh and girls aren't "real bitches" --this is only something guys say when his pride is hurt and he doesn't know how to deal with rejection, his emotions, and basically life --don't be this kind of guy --I promise you, it's miserable.

[Country Cutie :3]

dude.... im sorry to tell you this but she doesn't like you she is just too polite to tell it to your face. but she is giving you hits ie. the not responding, the telling you shes not looking for a relationship, the mostly online talking. girls do that when they dont want to be rude and tell you that they dont like you. it has nothing to do with your looks or anything its just she doesnt like you. u seem like a nice guy and i wouldnt want you to get her so imma suggest you forget about her. itll only hurt u more if you keep chasing after her and she keeps running further and further away.