Best friend is becoming really good friends with my ex?

[yatbtmjtptmv]

Okay so I knew my ex for 5 years and we were best friends who dated on and off. Well our friendship/whatever we were ended a couple of months ago and it needed badly. I was seriously so hurt by this and still am. He was my first love and my current girl best friend knows all of this. Well my girl best friend that I've known for 2 years and we recently started hanging out more to where I consider her my girl best friend has started talking to my ex on Facebook and she has only known he existed for about 5 months now.. He shit talks on me to her all of the time and she doesn't even defend me. She even has started now to where she goes to his house and ditches me to hang out with him. She told me she thought we was pretty attractive and he had a good personality. I straight up told her if they ever dated I would no longer be her friend and she honestly didn't understand why. Yesterday she went and got him from his house while I was with her and then dropped me off. Like what do I do?

[lllllllll]

That is not a real friend right there.

[john]

Well you don't really have any right to say who your friends or your ex's go out with, but I can kind of understand you being hurt about your best friend and your ex talking about you in that way behind your back.

Personally, if it gets to a point where your friend is constantly ditching you to go hang out with your ex, then I say don't get mad or emotional around them, because you're handing them material for amusement. Just say "I'm sorry, but I don't want to be your friend anymore. Nothing against you, I just don't feel that we appreciate each others company anymore.".

This way you will seem like a mature and composed individual, and you can begin to forget about them and find a new friend. It's hard but you just gotta deal with it.

[Azz]

i think its time to throw your memory with your friend and ex away and time to start a new one. friends and ex like them will soon make you feel worst about yourself and do stupid things.

[Last]

start by looking into a mirror for several hours then shave your eyebrows and call chinese food.