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Does this girl like me 10 points!!!!!?
02-22-2014, 12:00 PM
Post: #1
Does this girl like me 10 points!!!!!?
There's this girl tonight we went skating it was me,her and my two cousins. When I was alone with her I asked her were we stand and she said friends and then I asked her if it will ever be anything more and she said no and I said ok but I told her well I don't feel the same way I do like u. And then she just looked at me. I have known her for 2 years and when I'm around her she always flirts touching,grabing, things like that. Everytime I spend time with her then when I leave I'm so depressed for days but its like I can't stop. So should I never see her again or what should I do. I Do like her but just want to know what's best for me.she was staying all night with my cousin and usually I stay but I said I'm leaving and she wanted me to stay but I didn't and she kept asking why are you leaving and I said I got to go. So what should I do? I did ask her out before but she was dating somebody but she said I will give you a chance but then she started daring someone else. And of course I told her what I thought about it probably said things I shouldnt have. But is there any luck or should I let her go.I don't really feel like I can go on without her but then again I'm tired of getting hurt by her also. Should i stop going around her or how should i go about it.

We have been friends for along time. Lot of memories do you think she feels as depressed as i do. I notice she has not been on facebook or instagram since this which was about 5 days ago which is strange for her. I know she just cant forget about all of those memories or atleast i cant

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02-22-2014, 12:05 PM
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I&#x27;m a girl and I know this behavior, not saying that I&#x27;ve done this to anyone but I know girls who have. It seems to me that she is leading you on. Maybe she does want to be with you someday but just not right now. If I were you I would have a talk with her and find out what she truly wants and then go from that. She might not even know what she wants at the moment. I know it sucks but maybe right now she just needs you to be a friend to her. She&#x27;s probably just confused also.

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02-22-2014, 12:21 PM
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I'm so sorry... But it would appear you have been friendzoned. If she's not interested, she's not. Decide which option sounds better; not seeing her anymore (and thus not risking hurt feelings), but losing a friend; OR still being her friend, but running the risk of getting hurt further down the line. If you do decide you still want to be friends with her, approach her and make it clear that you still like her, but are ok with being just friends because you value that relationship; then try and keep things as normal as possible, and do not, I repeat, DO NOT make a move on her unless she makes it clear that she returns your affections. If you decide to simply not see her anymore, make sure to call her/talk to her and tell her why (because you like her too much and can't risk it again).

If she is depressed, then it's because she's lost a friend and she doesn't know why you've shut her out; in which case you're the one hurting her by not communicating well. Or she could *gasp* have just not logged into facebook. Don't read too far into things.
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