how to get out the friend zone?

[john]

I have been friends with this girl for 4 years and i want to ask her out now . I have talked with her on facebook and met her a few days ago with my friend. How can i be more flirty with her on facebook to let her know i like her more? I dont want to come off as a best friend ect so how can i?

[Fekefufu]

Try getting off Facebook to talk to her for starters

[Waterdragon]

stop thinking that being friends with no romantic involvement is a choice ----- its not ---- you dont ever choose who you like romantically ---- stop wondering ask her out and see what she says ----- the fact that you have not asked her out in 4 years says you are not that interested ---- if she says yes then she likes you --- if she says anything else she is not interested in you romantically

[SecretName]

ask her ou.t in a cool ay. so it wont just be normal

[SecretName]

You can flirt back on Facebook by responding to her posts. Mention something that allows others and her to see you are marking your territory so to speak. Like if she posts the pic of a cute guy, say something like, "he may be cute to you but he's not responding to your post...I am". Oh...that's a good one. I'll have to remember that for myself. lol