I'll answer your question if you answer mine! Is there anything I can do to fix this?

[Little Me]

I'm 20 years old and last monday I "dumped" a guy I was dating because we have very different values and lifestyle. We were never official, but some of our friends knew we were seeing each other. He's not the sort of guy I see myself ending up with, but I still like him and it hurt me to let him go. Honestly I've got really bad commitment issues due to my family's past, and it didn't exactly make it better that I didn't truly understand what he wanted from me. I didn't talk to him after that. This friday we ended up at the same party, which took me by surprise. He wasn't drinking (designated driver) and I got pretty wasted. I feel really stupid right now because I remember I once commented on him drinking too much and in the end I ended up being the drunk one. Anyways... I was trying to get his attention, but of course he didn't go to a party to talk to the girl who said she didn't want him. He treated me respectfully and drove me home after the party. I paid him for the ride. I can't remember everything I said, but I didn't say straight out that I miss him. I remember him saying that I should be careful with what I say when I'm drunk though. Last night he texted me. This time he had been drinking and said he wanted to talk to me. He was hoping I'd be at home, cause I live very close to the pub he was at. I wasn't at home though, cause I'm visiting my mother. Later on he called me and was going to say something (he said he wanted to talk to me), but then I heard a noise in the background (think his friend was in a fight or something), and he said he was sorry and would have to call me later. He never did. Silly me for ever dumping the guy is hurt because he didn't so I wrote him on Facebook and the conversation was something like this (and yes, it was THAT short):

Me: Hi. You called me last night and said you wanted to talk, but then something happened on your end and you had to hang up. Is everything okay?
Him: oh

1. Do you think he contacted me because he missed me or just because he needed a place to stay (and get something)? He lives outside of town and I live in the city centre
2. Does he still like me or is he careless?
3. Is there anything I can do to fix what happened between us? If so, how should I do it?

[nanners]

You have different values and lifestyles and yet you want to get back with him? Why? Did those values and lifestyles change all of a sudden? You are lonely now and so he looks good but things would go back to the same and then you would be asking yourself why you got back together. Leave it alone. It wasn't meant to be. You'll be glad in the long run that you moved on.

[Angela]

I think he might still like you. You can be honest with him and tell him how you feel. If he still likes you, then y'all can possibly fix things. If he shows no interest, then you can have closure and move on.

Please answer mine if you can. Thanks! http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...143AATkolj

[Nikki]

He obviously still has an interest in you.. you should go for it.. talk to him and see what happens. There's nothing more to say than that. I hope all goes well c: answer my question? Thank you c:

[kate]

Lol! This is exactly like my situation XD yeah I definitely thinks he wanted to talk to you about what you were saying when you were drunk.. But it's kinda like when you call someone and they don't answer and then they call back and you don't answer.. You just keep missing eachother/catching eachother at bad times. I'd say meet up with him at a time and place when both of you are sober (lol) and just catch up on what you needed to tell eachother