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This guy I met on the Internet won't leave me alone.?
02-22-2014, 11:50 PM
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This guy I met on the Internet won't leave me alone.?
So I met this guy on the Internet like a year and a half ago and we had this thing and we dated online. He lives in Florida and I'm in texas. But we were just friends now and I have a real boyfriend but he wanted to be with me but I told him no I have a real boyfriend and I don't want this Internet relationship. So now he won't stop messaging my bf and went stalker and is trying to rruin my relationship with him. He stalking my boyfriend and I Facebook and Instagram and sends us creepy ass messages. Is there anything I can do? Like anything with the law for him to stop? I really want to contact a lawyer or something I want him to stop but he won't leave me alone.

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02-23-2014, 12:04 AM
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contact the law, it is harassment or you can block him

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02-23-2014, 12:07 AM
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omg its scary right, I had a bf, but it was a bad relationship, so I had a myspace without him knowing, this guy lived maybe 2 hours away, he seemed so nice at first, and his ex gf added me saying stay away from this guy, he broke her nose a few months before we talked, and that he was crazy, stalkerish, and obsessive,
I told this guy I had a bf, how I just wanted to be friends, and some how he ended up getting gmy number idk how, but he called me, texted me, and if I didn't answer he always threatened me, I was scared.
one day I blocked him, and he made a new profile, so I just deleted my page,
well I was at work one day and he called me, he said that I need to be with him or else he will come and find me and hurt me, I was scared cause I know he hurt his ex, then I hung up I had a costumer walk in, then all of a sudden he sends a text saying he knows where I work, and he sent the name of my job, I never told him or anyone where I worked. so he found out, he said he was getting in his car on his way to come find me, and I better watch out
I freaked out, I called my bf, but my bf was an hour and a half away,
every time some one walked in I didn't feel safe, I wanted to call the cops ,but I was scared of the cops,
finally it ended I never heard from him again
but u should try calling the cops and see what ur options are
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02-23-2014, 12:23 AM
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I'm not sure what you mean by "date online". Like, you had online sex?

You told him you didn't want the relationship, so he knows. Maybe he doesn't agree with the manner in which you ended the relationship, and maybe you were not nice and acted inappropriately (we don't know), but that's not the point. You said you didn't want the relationship, so he has to accept that.

It's time to break ties with the guy. Block him from being able to contact you or your boyfriend.

It would be nice to tell him that you don't want to hear from him again too, just to make it clear. So, let him know that, then block him.

Personally, I would message him something like this, "Hi John, You've been continually harassing both me and my boyfriend. I told you that I didn't want our relationship anymore. I wish you the best in the future, but please leave my boyfriend and I alone. Please do not send me any more messages or attempt to get in contact with either me or my boyfriend."

Then, go and block him to the best of your ability.
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