facebook and the male coworker?

[KttK008]

My wife of 6 years has a male coworker on Facebook that comments EVERYTHING she leaves on her feed what do i do about this guy? I know she has male friends on FB but this one goes the extra mile to interact with her. She would never cheat but i don't like it either am i being paranoid?

[Killah B]

You may be slightly paranoid, but you have a right to be. If you feel as if anyone wants to put a wedge in between you, your spouse, and your marriage together, then I suggest you talk to your wife about it. Let her know that you feel uncomfortable with this man. If she respects your feelings, she will do something about it.

[Hurricain]

Do you trust your wife? That's the real question here.

If you do, you would not give a flying f**k if her male coworker comments on her Facebook feed. What's the harm?

[sina]

Of course not. It's perfectly fine, many define it as a form of jealousy, but as a male you are trying to defend your territory. Since your wife wont cheat, then that means she is rational, and would certainly understand you. Just discuss this with her. If should would be ignorant (at least on FB), he would get tired and find it tedious and useless to comment/like everything. She could manage to keep her distance with him in the working environment and keep her cool. You have to also mention that your wife should not make any remarks about you, so her coworker will think its all from her, and will also keep his distance. (usually guys become bitchy when they know the dominant male hates them)

[sl1foru]

Again with facebook. Some people clearly dont have a life.

[SayItRight]

Maybe a bit paranoid or maybe he has a bit of an unhealthy interest but like you say she wouldn't cheat on you,you know your wife and you sound like you trust her completely so i would't let it get to you,it is very possible that you are thinking into it a bit too much,i have certain people on facebook of both genders who just seem to 'like' everything for no apparent reason.

There really isn't much you can do about it,your wife has to work with him so you don't want to make things awkard for her by saying anything and he will only deny any kind of wrong doing anyway so i would honestly just leave it for now,it might be nothing but even if it is something on his side it doesn't matter,it's not anything from her side and that is what counts.

[Kent]

My spouse and I don't have FB. We don't think it is necessary at all.

[Fizzgig]

FACEBOOK IS FOR CHILDREN. WHEN ADULTS GET ON FACEBOOK THEY ACT LIKE CHILDREN. GROW UP. GET RID OF IT....

[anonymous]

I think maybe you should seal to your wife about the male Co worker