If you break up with someone and they dont try to win you back does that mean they didnt care?

[melissa]

well to make the story short, i had a boyfriend who i adored but deep inside i was afraid i wasnt going to truly make him happy, lil things made me panic like when at first he agreed to hangout with me on new years, then out of no where he remembered he was going to go to church that day instead, well he became my ex boyfriend because my 81 year old bestfriend who has some type "psychic ability" told me i shouldnt be in no relationship right now i need to focus on other things, so i ended up breaking up with him because i value who opinion since she been through life even though deep inside i regret it because i adore him, so we stayed friends but then i panicked again because i felt like i was opening up more about my life like childhood things and he became distant, this made me vulnerable so like a idiot i told him i love him but we cant be friends, he didnt act like he was fighting for our relationship so out of anger i deleted his number, i thought he would get back in contact with me if he loved me but he hasnt, he has not try to contact me at all ;'( making me feel like maybe he didnt care, anyway i sent him skype messages but he has not seen them, also these past 2 weeks of not hearing from him made a change in me, i realize so much about myself an why im scared someone will just leave me, iv change on a soul level in a positive way.. MY QUESTION IS: I dont have facebook but my friend does and i could have her get in contact with him through Facebook for sure but SHOULD I? OR SHOULD I JUST WAIT UNTIL HE CONTACTS ME? IF A MAN TRULY LOVES YOU WOULDNT IT NOT BE SO EASY TO LET THE WOMAN YOU LOVE OUT YOUR LIFE?? please give me so advice.. any experience with this type of situation..thank you

[Sweg]

No it doesn't mean he doesn't care. My ex boyfriend was in love with me so much it was kind of scary. I didn't like him like he liked me, so I broke up with him. He ignored me in the halls and classes and everywhere, but one day he texted me (months after the break up) and said; "Look, I know you didn't like our relationship and I miss you soo much. Could we please try again? These last months I was in so much pain!" I didn't take him back because I basically forgot about him until he texted me, but ANYWAYS;
IT doesn't mean thet he doesn't or never did care. Their are plenty of reasons on why he isn't trying to win you over. He's sad, but just accepted the fact that you guys broke up. He might think if he tries to win you over you'll get mad at him. He might be great at hiding his feelings. He might be like my ex boyfriend and text you months later about his love for you. The possibilites are endless.

Just don't worry about it! If it was meant to be then stuff will be worked out.

[Filip]

Sorry to be so brute but you ms are delusional. If YOU really liked him you wouldn't have broke up with him because some person who claims to be psychic told you to... and stop saying that if a guy really loved you he would contact you, this isn't a fairy tale. You broke up with him out of the blue and haven't contacted him so if I was him I would be thinking that this girl clearly doesn't want anything to do with me so I guess ill just leave it as it is. He wont be contacting you. If you really like him as much as you say then sure contact him through facebook and apoligize for breaking up with him and say it was a mistake. But please don't be all psycho, because what you wrote is a little psycho. You even told him you didn't want to be friends... ofcourse he wont contact you. Man you are foolish...