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will my boyfriend change his ways?
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02-23-2014, 10:14 AM
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will my boyfriend change his ways?
I've been dating an ex marine for about a year now...he's 25 ,I'm 21. In the beginning of our relationship he was on instagram flirting with other women, looking up teenagers and on live jasmine searching "teens". I catching him staring at females all the time even though I told him how I felt about it.all of his marine friends cheat on their wives and call them "bitches". I've found pictures on his phone of a female he's never met before (he downloaded them off her facebook profile).
He's always making fun of big people when he's not even skinny himself. The other day we got into an argument and he said that I was acting like a dumb *****....he lies a lot..sometimes to the point where I don't even know when! He tells m that he wants to marry me,he loves me, and that he has changed and when It try to leave him,hell take something of mine so I have to come back.. he makes me look bad and tells our business to his" female friends". I honestly don't find him attractive..he's overweight and eats very unhealthy and I feel nothing when we have sex....but I'm afraid to break it off ? Advice? Ads |
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02-23-2014, 10:27 AM
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A tiger doesn't change his stipes and someone that immature at 25 will take a long time to catch up to maturity level. I would go.
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02-23-2014, 10:35 AM
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Youve got a boy not a man. Its 2014 and time for new places and new faces. Now you know what you like and dont like in men.
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02-23-2014, 10:45 AM
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Run.
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02-23-2014, 10:53 AM
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There really is nothing keeping you here. You don't stand to lose anything by leaving. It's time to be a grown up and end it.
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02-23-2014, 11:03 AM
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You need to change your ways!!! Think about it!!! You tell people all these horrible things about your BF but your still with him!! That makes you look real bad!!! Your afraid to break it off with a BF that lies and acts like a dumb@ss according to you!! Yes, changes your ways and learn how to leave a loser instead of speak bad about him making yourself look foolish!!
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02-23-2014, 11:08 AM
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Time to become truthful to yourself. You said: "he lies a lot..sometimes to the point where I don't even know when!" Your relationship might be a huge lie. Do you want to be with the man who is ok with friends who disrespect women and personally blackmails you to not to leave? Soon it will turn into violence with beatings, knives and who knows what. Get out while you still can. I knew 2 ex-marines and both of them became very aggressive, posessive and in the end threatened my life. Please don't wait for this to happen. It's obvoius you are not happy and love is about being happy with someone. He doesn't deserve your love and best years of your life. You deserve much, much better!
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02-23-2014, 11:19 AM
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It sounds to me that you have made up your mind and are just looking for the courage to go through with the break up. The longer you think about it the harder it will get.
Make sure you have your essentials in a safe place, like at a friend's house. Tell him how you feel and that you are serious about it and do not enter into a discussion where he may guilt you into staying. You do not need to be mean or horrible but be honest and to the point. Then leave. Be brave, it's never easy but you cannot put it off forever, it's not fair on either of you. |
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02-23-2014, 11:30 AM
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Boyfriend questions belong in Singles & DATING...
End it and move on...you're wasting your time and his, and it's foolish to be in a relationship with someone you clearly dislike... |
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02-23-2014, 11:32 AM
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I swear I look at all the weird questions. Downloads random pictures of "real" people he does not know. I mean my girl has watched porn and I've shared pictures of models. Looking is normal/healthy. But just random chicks S-T-A-L-K-E-R ALERT or somethin' red flag! He likes younger women. If not for the stalker alert the jasmine thing is ok. Then you go and add instagram flirting? WTF? And he is a marine? I don't want him in charge or protecting our country. Especially with his rude tough guy friends treating their women like that. A fatty making fun of fat people - LOL insecure. He wants to make you look stupid or "mean" to other women? Can I call him a douche? It still is your man.
The least he could do is F the .... out of you. I might sound like a jerk. But, I know many women who agree... Sometimes sex does make a relationship worth staying in. "you feel nothing". These are all signs "TELLS" he is cheating on you. Read these: http://www.signs-of-a-cheater.com/signs_...g_men.html http://glo.msn.com/relationships/10-ways...76.gallery He is callous, rude, creepy/weird can't please; satisfy or address your needs and..... (sorry you can kick my a.. for pointing this out). He might be having sex with the other women he is talking crap about you to. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/04/18...86843.html He sounds like an insecure little brat. Break it off now. |
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