I won't show my girlfriend my phone, but I'm not hiding anything?

[Max Marshall]

The other night my girlfriend at almost a year asked to see my phone, but I didn't give it to her. I said give me a second to delete some stuff (which I understand is very shady) but I was just going to delete stupid pictures of myself and some contacts that I don't text anymore but still make her mad. So after I did that, she watched me click on snapchat, which ruined everything. Since I had been logged out all day, when I clicked on it, it was froze at the black photo screen, them it went to the log in menu. As soon as I signed in, I showed her all of my snapchats, she started crying and said she can't trust me anymore, today she said she doesn't know of she wants to break up or not. Every time I went to reach for her phone, she'd never let me see it. And she'd never leave it with me. I'm not hiding anything, I've never cheated or even been remotely attracted to another girl, but I'm jut not comfortable with her with my phone. She usually went through everyone I texted and texted them something weird, so they thought I texted them. And when she didn't do that, she'd get on my twitter or go through my contacts and get mad at whoever she found. Even guys. But I only have 3 girl contacts, and a couple of my friends as contacts too, but my girlfriend is the only person I text all the time. She gets mad and jealous very easily, has admitted she's flirted with other guys in the relationship, has texted her ex twice that she loved and missed him (that was half a year ago) has broke up with me over 5 times because of small things that weren't my fault. And one of the times she broke up with me for a week, she even sent pictures to 1-3 guys. The worst I've done is reply to my ex who texted me, and even then I didn't put much care into texting her. I don't like my ex, or any other girls at all. But my girlfriend still thinks I'm hiding something. I don't want her to leave me, but I don't want to be with someone who won't trust me for no reason. What do I do?

[Aj]

Let her leave. She's jealous, but also not faithful. You're getting the bad side of the relationship.

[sl1foru]

Sounds to me like your girlfriend is trying to justify the things she do an to keep from feeling guilty wants to catch you doing something. You would be better off to just end it with her an find a gril that actually trust you and not want to go thru your phone. She is a sneaky one keeps breaking up with you for nothing thats so she can fool around with other guys without it being considered cheating. she is toxic end bro before you get hurt.

[Ramona]

Stand your ground!!! You are so afraid to lose her, that you are letting her walk on you.. she obviously doesn't respect herself, or you..you deserve better than her.. don't go crawling back to her.. you stand up and take a stand, and say enough is enough..she has cheated on you, lied to you.. how bout you look at her phone.. she's a guilt ridden moron, and she is awful.. get rid of her.. and you grow some confidence..

[me]

You're both a bit in the wrong here. This one phone incident aside, I think you should dump her. Her patterns of dishonesty don't need to be put up with especially if you've been faithful this whole time.

But in the future with her or any girlfriend, don't delete stuff before letting them see your phone. It's extremely shady and any girl would think something was up, it's just kind of a dumb move to do that

[Forget]

It's like tug-of-war. She is pulling at one end until you've let go & fallen, and you are still pulling at the other end trying to hold on. You two should be on the same side pulling together as support[a team]. Who is going to win this.? No-one wins nor loses. Does not matter. Rather it shows strength to the ones that tried.
She can't trust you 'cause she over thinks you, yet she aspects you to trust her.? Rather she is trying to make you feel the range she has inside. Her texting guys, sending guys her photos,flirting with guys, etc. but yet she cries,gets jealous, mad, etc.
I advice to end the relationship before she does. If she cries about it just let it be..later she may go back to her same routine.