My mom doesn't trust me? Best answer will be chosen tonight!?

[Curly Cat]

Okay, I like a guy and I decided to message him on Facebook (took some courage, haha). My mom saw what I was doing and asked me who it was. I told her it was a guy I met at a camp thing. She asked me his name (she has looked through all of my guy friends' profiles) and I told her I didn't want to tell her because she will start Facebook stalking him (she has done it before even my friends). She said she wouldn't send him a message or a friend request (she's done it before), but I still did not want to tell her. She then got mad and told me that I was not going back to the camp thing (I enjoy going to it an seeing my old friends) since I like a bit there! I got really mad but she told me all teenage boys want sex and that girls who like them will give in! I kept telling her I have morals and respect for myself, and if he (or anyone) was to pressure me I would call it off. She won't listen though! Ugh, I just want a little breathing room and just want some advice on how to go about this.
I am 14 (just about to turn 15) and take all honors (all A's), by the way.

[Tom]

It's just a mother kind of thing to do, it sucks to hear, but she's just worried.. been there done that (even though I'm a boy so you wouldn't expect your mom to overreact a little). try and understand what she's going through, you're growing up faster than she can possibly realize, moms take time to understand that and for now she just wouldn't want you to make mistakes. truth is, we NEED to make our own mistakes.. I've kinda hated my mom a while ago because of a situation a bit like yours, but after a while she just realized there was no purpose in being angry about things like that and we're growing together again. And yes, I made a mistake back then, and now I understand why she acted the way she did... I'm sorry, this is definately not what you wanted to hear, I know, I understand, but for now there's nothing you can do, If you're close with your mom you could try and talk to her about your and her feelings,

I really hope things work out for you!