Does this mean he's cheating?

[his mrsssss.]

I've been with my boyfriend for about two years now. I am so emotionally and physically attached to him and his family, they all welcomed me in with open arms and treat me wonderfully. I just recently turned 18, I'm working and also writing my first novel which is set to debut this winter. I'm always going back to school to get my diploma, I dropped out my senior year due to several things that I would rather not get into.

However recently, I've been very busy going out of town, working and just trying to handle business. My boyfriend always says how I never show him attention and that I make up excuses and that I'm a liar when I say that I'm working. But I've taken off days just to see him and stay with him.

He constantly accuses me of cheating and seeing other guys because guys write on my wall on Facebook saying that I'm beautiful, I'm this and I'm that and how I need to inbox them but I never do.

He says how I'm always on my phone, but mind you I work on my book through my phone which he fails to realize. I have a few guy friends but when they text me or call me it's simply to ask how I'm doing and that's that but they do know that I'm in a relationship and they respect that. So he gets mad. Yet, girls are always on his wall and in his inbox. I gave him my password to fb and twitter and he claims that he didn't log on to neither which I don't believe. He's just always on to me and speculating, I've never cheated on him and I really love him. Can this be a guilty conscience of his? He told me that he was insecure as well.

[somebody_0001]

He might have a guilty conscience bc he's cheating. If he has women's msgs in his inbox, then he's probably cheating on you.

[Stephanie]

yes it can be but if u want your honey to stay your honey then u are going to have to step it up a noch.

[Sue C]

I believe his problems IS that he IS insecure. You're busy most of the time with your book, school & other things. He doesn't have as much on his "plate" as you do. He's blaming these guys who give you compliments as that you're cheating on him. IF he would go on your Face Book & everything else you've given him privilege to, he'd find out you are NOT cheating on him. I just believe it's that your time is so taken up with other things, he instead blames it on you cheating. I think he's a bit jealous of ALL the things you're involved in, this is a way to get your attention & he also feels insecure by it all. TRY to spend more time with him & share as much as you can with him to make him feel a bit more important. I really believe this is all it is. Good luck with your book, honey, the very best to you...