I don't think I can trust a guy anymore. Too many shocks in a little time!?

[anonymous]

Within the past 3 years, I got along with say 5/6 guys..each one said he was interested and HE STARTS IT, then turns out to be a total jerk. I decided that I need a break. I changed in so many ways, I wasn't desperate anymore. I met this guy at a very respectful place, he said he liked me, asked me out, I backed off. He insisted, sounded interested, he asked for my number, never called, asked me out on facebook, stood me up 3 times, apologized, said he wanted to be my bf, I hesitated cuz he stood me up before, I was confused and changed the topic everytime he would mention it. I deactivated my account for 2 months, he didn't call or text, he found me on twitter and followed me, then asked me out again! I said yes. We were supposed to meet at 4, he texted at 3:30 saying he had to attend someone's funeral and said he'd make it up for me. I was fine. I went to hang out with my friend that same time at the same place we were supposed to meet. 2 hours later, he showed up. I was like "OMG! I can't believe u made it" he turned out to have a meeting at the table behind us. He lied. I went back home and he sent me a fb msg "we need to go to the cinema!" what to do?

[Donald]

The best relationships are without expectations.

[Angelica]

... stop dating him. not all guys are jerks but he seems to be.

[Zom Bee]

This same thing happened to me. He's not interested in you. He's playing some game that makes him feel powerful. You need to NOT go out with him and cut off all contact with him. He will just hurt you. Hope you find someone that really loves you.

[black kitty]

Somthings up but give him a shot he stands u up again cut ties ad find a better person. But please do not become a cat ladie

[riverstyx0128]

this guy is *clearly* a jerk, put some distance between you and him. not all guys are jerks, but you seem to be surrounded by only jerks. You will know when you meet a guy that's a little different & doesn't act that way, trust me.

[Mardy Bum]

I think you should just ignore him. It seems like he's always making these excuses, getting you all worked up for nothing, you know? So just move on and I'm sure the right guy will come soon.

[Precious]

Give a second chance if u like him.....

[Gothic Rose]

most women have gone through this and i know how you feel. it's hard to find mr. right. it just takes time. before you can jump into a relationship. be friends with them first. take your sweet time to know the guy if you see something that not right like standing you up the first time they do that cut them off completly. or go with your gut feeling. don't go with the i like you excuse from the guy. you can tell when a guy likes you or don't. study guys first. then you'll understand what you are really looking for and it's not an a@@hole. you'll find the right one. just take your time knowing them.