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A girl I've seen at the Market!!! What's next?
02-24-2014, 02:21 PM
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A girl I've seen at the Market!!! What's next?
I went to the Market few times, and I've seen her working behind the register (3 to 5 times maybe) but I never showed her any intereset because I simply never felt interested, Until the last time when I went to pay for my items and she was the one behind the counter. Suddenly I felt as if i have feelings for her, she could probably see that on my face, I could tell she may likes me because she starts playing with her hair. I couldn't say anything other than "hi" and "you too" ( after she said" have a nice day!!!" ) with a smile on her face. So I did a little research on her family name(name was on the tag of her shirt) and luckly I found her profile on facebook, I added her but she still didn't confirm yet, but we had a pretty nice one hour conversation through about 12 messages I would say which ended up with her saying "good talking to you too, later". The messages were like none of us know anything or ever seen the other. However it's not true because we could see each other profile pictures (complicated to explain!!!), none of us asked "who are you". It just went as if I am the one who's investigating her how she found my profile and than she tried to prove and convince me that I am the one who added her!!! So what's next? should I send her more messages? Should i go see her in the store where she works? I was thinking of buying some flowers and other personal stuff for myself from the same store she is working at and after I pay for it, I tell her that the flowers are for you. Would I look like creepy? stalker? bad idea? (her relationship status is single).

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02-24-2014, 02:28 PM
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Remember just forget it. u r thinking wrong. if i was a customer she would behave same as you.

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02-24-2014, 02:35 PM
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The flower thing sounds a bit cheesy. Next time your at the store ask her if she would like to hang out sometime. If she says yes go for a slow walk, get some ice-cream or something.
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02-24-2014, 02:49 PM
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Wow, its is so obvious that you like this girl!
why cant you be direct... tell her how you feel but be subtle! (have a balance) direct but not too indirect be coherent, like " I would like to get to know you... " something of that nature.

I understand the complication of not seeing the others direct profile as its all based on her not adding you however your were able to talk, in this case write to her.

I think going to see her at work is a bit too much unless your planing to buy something in store. So yes I think it would come across creepy and therefore bad idea... flowers can be seen as a nice gesture at the same time also seen a personal one.

I'm not sure but it sounds as if she blow you off ("good talking to you too, later") I take that this came after you saying something like ..."It was good talking to you" but I might be wrong... (I'm just jealous as you sound so lovely... lol)

Contact her through Facebook as it sounds like there was some kinda connection here (hence 12 messages in the space of an hour) Ask her out... or get to know her on the site and take it from there....

Good luck Big Grin
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