He cheated what should I do?

[Sierra]

I posted a similar question about this situation but I haven't gotten that great of advice so im hoping I will this time. So my boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me a few months ago and I just found out Saturday. He and my friend had phone sex and now Im really really hurt about the whole thing. Ive never been cheated on and hes my first love and everything else. We were 16 when we met. Hes made so many mistakes but I stayed with him because I believe in him. I really love this guy, more than anything in this world. He always promised me he wouldnt cheat on me even though he cheated on his ex. He swore he wouldn't. He still did. Now im having issues trusting him and Ive been crying for days. I told him Id stay and give him another chance but if he leaves me, we're done. Do you think I made the right decision? Do you think we can ever be happy together and do you think I can trust him again? Also Im pregnant so im having his baby which makes things all the more complicated.
*If he cheats on me we're done
Firstly, fapping to another woman's voice is cheating. Secondly, I didnt do it to trap him, trust me. If I have to trap a guy for him to stay, I would get myself a better guy who wants to be with me.
And him asking for naked pictures of her is definitely not being faithful to me.

[Emma]

come and meet me , ill treat you like a real lady, ma'am .

[Charlie]

one explicit phone conversation is not cheating.
and its kinda your fault for not practicing safe sex and getting knocked up to trap him. not cool...

[Tanya]

Hi there,

You are pregnant and soon gonno have a baby. Tell him to marry you, if he says yes he also loves u & if he says no, he may or may not be trusted.

[Paul]

Hi Sierra,
How can you say that he's my 1st love and everything else that I love? you can't since you haven't had another opportunity with another guy, he's not the only guy in the world? Cheating is human and if a guy tells you and confirms it, that will never cheat you? Who can make such a statement? only a guy who has the habit to cheat and will continue to be a cheater.
This sad reality you have to face, if you continue with him and don't be surprised that tomorrow he'll do it again and again. Better cut the relation and he must give you a declaration saying that the child is his and that he should at least take responsibility for the kid to be born. You make all the arrangements at the birth to be taken a blood sample from the baby and also from him, in order that he can accept the responsibility, once the sample confirms that he's the father.

[chakra girl]

he can still be an active dad to your child even if you were apart, but in your position he would not be in my life now - you are worth more than being treated like dirt

[Ungratefulbrother680]

He doesn't deserve you. He knows you're having his child, yet he isn't being a faithful boyfriend--which means he likely won't be a faithful father. I think you made the wrong choice by saying you will stay and give him another chance… he will just be more careful next time. But since you've dug yourself into a hole and are stuck there, you can make amendments to your expectations from him. He has to delete all social media, you get to check his phone at random moments, and if he does anything shade AT ALL you will leave and his name will not be on the birth certificate. He will have no contact with his child, because a child doesn't deserve to have an absent father who doesn't treat the mother with respect.

[Dylan]

Dump him. Despite what anyone else says phone sex is cheating. I'm a guy. I've been cheated on before. You have to stand your ground because if you stay he'll just keep doing it. And maybe you're not ready for a baby. Idk how far along you are but if you're newly pregnant maybe you should consider abortion.

[Stephanie]

Hey sierra dont pay attention to charlie up there hes a prick and it takes two hell ive had guys try to get me to have their kid as a means of trapping me ! Lol but its not your fault only very selfish guys who have no respect for women or anyone for that matter would tell you its your fault . First off that " friend" isnt your friend if she was she wouldnt have done that to you . I would consider it cheating because hes interacting with her in a sexual way. Its someone you both know and if she were there by him they most likely wouldve had sex . Honestly if it were me I would leave him and move on with my life as hard as it would be . He is probably not ready to settle down and or doesnt realize how much he hurt you . He needs to change but he needs to see it so id give him all the space in the world to let him see what life is like without you in the picture . That will tell you everything you need to know . If he sees his error or just makes more which leads to unhappiness for u