Messaged me two times ??!?!?

[Adi]

I know it is long but its worth it, im 24 years old working for really good company and living alone, going to start college to raise my sallary and she is 20 year old student, going strong and very ambicious.

So basically we broke up one month ago and she gave me the good old "its not you its me" excuse. I didnt buy it, I found it little insulting because I don't want to be friends and I want the truth no matter how harsh it is.

For one month I was casually asking her out never expecting any positive answer witch I never got to hang out and do fun stuff like table tennis, bowling, pool etc. So I decided to needle her.

I Bought Audi Key and audi "S" key holder, because she likes audi and wants to own one in the future, was not expensive at all and I hanged USB witch had New Year footage that I took of whole city in fireworks, because we celebrated seperately new year, and I promised that she will have that footage.
I also put a little note to provoke her saying how she doesn't owe me anything and that she was best thing that ever happened to me and that it would be my honor to be by her side as boyfriend.

This needle'd her, saying she will never accept any gifts from me, and she sended me text saying she saw what was on USB and told me finally the truth, that she only found me charming and never "liked" me in that way

I just told her "See, its not that hard to say the truth ?, I can finally respect you properly. And remember this, male friends do not exist"

She then messaged me on viber saying how she doesnt understand the male friends part because she has plenty, so In short, I just Let her know that I dont want to be a doormat for anyone and a second choice because im confident young guy that knows what he wants in life, and my life proves that because all I need is a girl to enjoy the happines that I can show her. We got too emocial, I was crieing and I bet she was too and I just told her we need to call it, wished both each other best in life and it was done deal.

3 Days ago I made a facebook post, we were still friends, about her favorite band because I was working for them and helping them because I am in telecomunication bussines, thanking them for everything they did for me and how they respected what I did for them, I saved them alot of money and they in exchange, I did not want money I dont need that, all signed CD with her name that I requested for her back in December when we were still dating, I got that CD right now in my hands and is waiting on shelf. I wanted to give her this just because I knew she would like it but because she broke up with me I just wanted to send it to her as Bday present in May.

That same day she messaged me how she saw the post and that she can not focus on study because of it ... So I told her that we did some things for each other ( the band ) and that one small part of it was her, but that we will sort this quickly.

I told her "dont get mad at what I am about to do but I think that this is first best for me, and it seems I have more impact on your life then I think, finish that college and dont let "me" be the one that makes you depresed, and you will accept my birthday present because It is something you will like for sure and something that does not have a motiv, something I got from my friends, it is just because I like you

You have my phone number for everything you need from me, take care

I did not let her reposnd I just did this:

I procceeded to delete my viber account so she can not message me because im always online and always responding, then I deleted her from facebook and because I only used it for messaging her I deactivated my account.

I want to know if I did this right because I really really like her, she just doesnt know what she wants right now in life and I can not move on if she is near me like that, we ended on really good terms and I would like to show her the world if she ever wants to try again.

Relationship was fulfilling and very communicative, we never had anything to worry about it was just "effertless"

[ELISABETH]

Oh my

[Hermit]

Sounds like you should move on from this.
It's never a good idea to keep in touch with an ex after a break up, as it just prolongs the agony.
You could make one last attempt, using the cd as a gift for valentines day (tomorrow).
You could say you had arranged this for her back when you were dating and wanted to give it to her as a gesture of goodwill..and wish her all the best for the future. The cd will remind her of you.
She may or may not contact you again..but at least you can then fully move on.
You can't make someone like you in that way if they don't.