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Can I ask out this random girl in my school or is that to weird?!?!!?
02-24-2014, 08:57 PM
Post: #1
Can I ask out this random girl in my school or is that to weird?!?!!?
So there is this girl in my school that I like, she's really pretty and we have never talked. We're friends on Facebook, that's the only connection we have together. She's in none of my classes and I talk to like 2-3 of her friends. Can I just ask her out like out if the blue. Help would be appreciated. Also we are both sophomores, and I'm pretty handsome myself, don't wanna sound cocky. Thanks to everyone that answers.

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02-24-2014, 09:05 PM
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You should maybe talk to her in class, at lunch, on Facebook and develop more or a bond than what you have. Get to know each other a bit more and then ask her out!
Best of luck!

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02-24-2014, 09:13 PM
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Asking anyone out of the blues almost always awkward and embarrassing, (unless you have godly confidence) but not exactly weird--a lot of relationship happen that way. I have a few tips though:

First, remember to approach any relationship with clear knowledge of the fact that the person you like isn't perfect--that might seem obvious but when I was in high school, it seemed like when someone found out their partner had any sort of quirk it was a deal breaker. Second, you should know what kind of relationship you want with them so you can specify right off the bat (i.e, if you want casual relationship, or if you want to have a devoted relationship and explore each other's interests, etc.) because if you and the other person don't even have a prior relationship, you need the establish what the heck your relationship should be so it doesn't get hella awkward. Third: if she says yes, then at some point you need to heavily stress that when she hears gossip about you, or is confused about you, or comes across any other issue pertaining to you then she need to come and ask you about it straight out so you can get that stuff over with as quickly as possible, and then you should also hold yourself to this standard; this also might seem obvious but if you guys haven't talked to each other much, when problems arise, you guys may feel awkward bringing it up--just try to get the point clear that it's okay to have problems and you should talk about them, and the talking part might be upsetting sometimes but that's normal, too.

Otherwise, if you can't bring yourself to ask her out, just try to get closer to her then. I don't know exactly how you should go about that cause I don't know all the little details, but sometimes crushes turn into lifelong best friends. Just do something so you don't regret it later.
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02-24-2014, 09:15 PM
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No I wouldn't say its weird I say your Brave
Good luck Sam All the best
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