Is his behavior questionable?

[Angela]

Its my bf's first serious relationship. We have been together almost 4 months. I have tried talking to him about these things, but I don't think I speak "male" very well lol He's very stubborn too....Here goes:

Not only do I think he and his coworker are a little "too" talkative but I think she's a little too nosey. The other day, he comes to my house and tells me that she asks him *mind you, this is his COWORKER* if he "has sex with his glasses on or off." That's none of her business.

He FREAKS when I go near his phone. Then I found out he deleted me from his Twitter account and blocked me from seeing his tweets. Im a grown woman so I let it slide...But considered both incidences. Finally, he tells his friends EVERYTHING about me including the sex parts AND gets upset when I tell him that it bothers me.

He's an incredibly sweet guy. I mean it. In no way am I unhappy with our relationship. I'd like to say im much more "concerned" than anything because I'd like to teach him how some things are ok to do in relationships while others aren't. Not everyone is to be trusted with your info ESPECIALLY if you both have mutual friends, are always getting hit on, and are pretty popular.

Any ideas? I don't want to damage hurt him or do I want to break up with him because I think these things are minor to what COULD be going on lol Thanks.

[19th Y!A account]

paragraph 2 is not questionable...its jut a question! im a guy and ive had girls ask me weird sh*t like that and we're strictly friends (in my head at least) and i wouldnt do anything with them

para 3 though....yeah...thats pretty sketch. like REALLY sketch.

just tell him your losing me and if you keep this up ive gotta go b/c you keep hurting me (or something along the lines of that).
-->he'll either clean his act up and if he doesnt...leave. make him chase you back and force this change. if he doesnt chase you or change then your obvi not worth it to him and hes not worht your time and you need to find a guy who treats you right

[Jenny]

You must be older than him. It's odd how you use the word "teach". Anyways, he sounds immature and you won't be the one that will change that. He will have to grow out of that one alone.

If you want to stay with him then this behavior he is doing is something you will have to live with. You already expressed how it bothers you. Instead of him saying "I'm sorry, I won't do that again" he got pissed at you.

It's your choice, but he won't change.

[Rebel With a Cause]

yes and no. some people do value their privacy but if he "kisses and tells" i see that as a define problem.

the best way may be to do the following: tell him he is no longer allowed to check your phone or email. also, he isn't allowed to use your computer because you really value your privacy as well. that way, all of that will be eliminated from any discussion. if he asks why, say "you do it so why can't i? and unfriend him too, that's pouring the salt in.

after that snuggle up and give him kisses and hugs...