my boyfriend dont let me have guy friends ????

[elizabeth]

guys always try to get at me even though they know im engage i have guy friends that my boyfriend said i cant be friends with no more cause he says they just want me to f**** so i kind of got mad at him cause i thought that was stupid it wasnt true!!!!!
but then months pass and it turned out that one of my closes guy friend wanted to get at me i let my boyfriend know and he was like I TOLD YOU NOW NO GUY FRIENDS AND GIRLS DONT HAVE NO SUCH THING AS GUY FRIENDS but im surrounded by many guys that are still my friends but i keep it on the low from my boyfriend what can i do so he wont trip about me having guy friends or should i obey him ????

[Melanie Gleason]

oh my god. same here i had so many JUST guy friends and he hates it, hes overprotective and i guess controlling. i obey to make him happy but i make sure that the rules are the same with him, no girls. if hes texting girls then dammit you should text guys!

[Silky]

Should you "obey" him LOL congratulations you just set the women's movement back 40 years. Another young girl with low IQ and even lower self esteem.....good luck in life.

[Ej]

If you wish to be controlled, absolutely listen to him. If you wish to be a human being and a woman capable of her own decisions, absolutely not. I have more female friends than males, and it doesn't mean I wish to hookup with all of them or even any of them. Real men are capable of keeping friends as friends and girlfriends as girlfriends. I've done a few shoots and I am only strictly friendly basis with many attractive females I would never sleep with merely because they're like my sisters.

If you're engaged, he must learn to trust your judgment. Just because a man likes you doesn't mean you'll robotically sleep with them - you STILL have a say as it takes two to tango, and if he doesn't trust your judgment then that shows quite clearly how he thinks of you as a person.

Facebook.com/Ejayrazz if you need anything else as this spot is limited. Good luck! Don't be a robot.

[Nick]

you look hot. I don't want you to f***, i want you to cuddle lol. And yeah it's normal to have guyfriends, your boyfriend is just jealous.

[Alan]

Since you are engaged, I advice you assess your boyfriend's psychological state accurately asap. My opinion is that there is a good chance he's the controlling type of people who suffer from low self-esteem and insecurity. If that's the case, your life will be hxll because he will try to control every part of your life and thoughts and your self-esteem/confidence/image will be diminished to the point you really hate yourself without social life. Step back and observe. Good luck.

[Zoe Foster]

I have the same type of boyfriend. For one, he really doesn't want to lose you which is good. But two, he does not feel confident enough to trust you around other men. You need to express the fact that you consider your friends just friends and that he needs to relax. If in need, ask him to hang out with you and a few of your guy friends. If they become friends then he's less likely to care.

[Matthew]

obey? he's controlling,insecure ;next he'll be telling you how to wearr your hair.i am sure he has gals.where do you draw the line?Can you have lesbian friends, considering that they might hit on you too?The most important thing in a relationship is trust. He needs to learn that asap; if your boyfriend is having a serious problem with it, he has some serious issues because he's basing your relationship on a Double Standard scale.That is a sign of a really unhealthy relationship, and a sign of what can start an abusive relationship. I would suggest ending it. He is being hypocritical and I am very concerned that it will turn into an abusive relationship, i think that you should stand up to him and put your foot down . seems like he dont wont you to do what he do because maybe hes doing sumthing he aint got kno business or maybe he thinks hes not good enough for you or sumbody could take you from him if they wonted ... dont let a man run your life . there is more dudes to *** he wont be the last . live your life first.treating u like a doormat or a child.of course if u is attractive men will hit on u,natural but he has to trust that u is no hoe or something.trust issues is a red flag,baggage,what next!

[Takki]

Guys are going to get at you, even when you're married.

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ONE of your guy friends. Does that guy for some reason represent your entire male friend group?

It's one thing to be just scared to lose the one you love, but you need to be able to trust them to do the ring things. :|
Talk to him about it again calmly. You are a grown ass woman. You know how to take care of yourself.

If he doesn't change or realize he's being a dumbass, this road only has one way to go and it's not pretty. He's the controlling type and those types have a higher chance of being abusive, even if they were oh-so sweet before.