She said i was "irrelevant" if that's the case why does she want to be my friend again.?

[wazzzzup]

Ever since last year i had befriended this girl. She was so quiet , never really spoke or saw her around much people but that didn't matter because i was willing to be friends with anybody. When i added her on facebook she seemed to have alot of friends so i guess only in school she kept to herself.

The other day her and i had gotten into argument and she called me "immature" and "irrelevant" just because i had asked her advice (as friends normally do) then the reality hit me. She was always a sucky friend. When people are suppose to meet you halfway (50-50) she didn't meet me anywhere near that. She's the kind of friend who you would do things for that she would never do for you.

Few examples.
We went out to eat one day at applebees. Ironically she forgot she didn't have money exactly when the bill came and i paid the entire thing ($52) next day at McDonalds after school i asked her to get me a french fries and she had about $20 it was too expensive she said.

I traveled all the way from another borough (2 trains and a bus about an hour and a half and she wouldn't walk out her house which was 5 minutes away)

I waited for her at the library for an hour and she didn't come. Next day we decided to meet again and she left after 5 minutes literally.

All of that hit me after our argument but now she wants to be friends again. I thought i was "irrelevant" what does she need me for ?

[wayfaroutthere]

She doesn't want to be friends--she just thinks it is nicer to say that than "I don't want to hang out with you." After all that, you shouldn't want to hang out with her anymore either.

[MADLUV]

one sided friendships are a waste of time.. don't you think?
but what are you asking should you be friends with her again? i say if you want friends to use you and not allow you to use them then go for it.

you see the track record for your friend.. if you like it then stay friends if you don't it would be easier for yuou to find new ones instead of trying to change this one.

[478]

I don't think you should hangout with soneone like that. At least if she forgot her money, she should pay you back with her half (or how much of what she got)

Friends who say they will meet up with each other keep promises and if she wasn't going to show she should of told you. Why waste time going if she was going to spend 5 minutes their?

Yeah, you can do better without her