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How can i reach out and talk to this girl without being a total creep?
02-24-2014, 10:26 PM
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How can i reach out and talk to this girl without being a total creep?
Recently my fiance and i ended our engagement and broke up, i moved back out and i found out that she has been already started messing around with this other guy 2 days after we broke up...as you could maybe imagine it left me absolutely devastated i cant eat and i cant sleep the pain is just so bad i feel like i don't even want to continue to live anymore. Than one day at work im sitting in my office being depressed and sad so i get up and walk around (I work Loss Prevention at Target) and while im walking around through the store i literary run into this amazing and beautiful girl, i cant even describe the feeling she gave me just seeing her, its like all the pain and hurt i felt in my heart and soul all of it just disappeared i became warm again and i honestly felt happy. It felt like she made my heart restart and it made me feel like i was going to survive this and be OK....but ive never been one to talk to girls or women because i just to damn shy so i let her walk away, and right before she left all i said was have a nice day, she smiled and looked down and said thanks, and i got that feeling again everything was ok i couldn't even remember my fiance's name all i wanted was to be able to talk to this girl....so a couple of days go by and i seriously cant get this girl out of my mind i have no idea if i will ever see her again or anything, so i pull my phone out and open Facebook, one of my friends likes a picture and i scroll down and its HER, there she is on my phone i all of a sudden know her name and the feeling she gave me comes back again, so i talk to my friend and she says she doesn't really know her just that they went to school together so im basically on my own i know she just got out of a relationship much like i did. all i want is to send her a Facebook message and talk to her but i honestly have no idea how to write it and have her respond to me, because theirs nothing i can really say that wont make me sound like a total creep. i don't want to talk to this girl because shes beautiful im not trying to hit on her or talk to her just because she is a girl....i seriously just want to find out why i had this feeling when i saw her and how i can talk to her.

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02-24-2014, 10:31 PM
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Just always be confident with everything you say , dont worry if it sounds dumb and be a douchebag to her like telling her cheesy pervy pickup lines and she will fall for you honestly girls love that shit

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02-24-2014, 10:39 PM
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make the message private not posted on her wall & say something like, hey! we met at Target the other day. I don't know if you remember. I thought you were lovely & because I was at work, I didn't think it was appropriate to say anything other than "hello" & then this evening I went online to my facebook page & I was shocked to see your picture come up as a reccommended contact because we share a friend.

this is just a rough draft. fix it up into your own words. make sure you name the mutual friend. the next move will be hers. If she doesn't respond or tells you she's not interested then let it go. The important thing to this moment is that you know you aren't dead & that "those feelings" are alive & well inside you.

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