A friend who doesn't invest in the Friendship?

[Brian]

What do I do about a friend who doesn't invest in the friendship? she always tells me You my Best Friend and I must admit the time we do spend together at work is sometimes awesome. However she goes out with her other friends to places like clubs or eating joints but never bothers to ask me if I wanna go? and to make things worse am always the one who likes her statutes and sends her a message every 5 days or so on her facebook page saying goodluck on her exam or I hope you going to have a great time in your trip to Utah etc , but she never does the same thing for me. However with her other friends she will like their statuses and comment and write on their walls. But she never invests in our relationship and yet shes the one who tells me all the time that am her best friend? so how do you make sense of this and what would you do?

[anon]

ohmygod that is terrible, I am going through a similar thing right now, and just for now still be friends with her, but start going out and looking for new people to hang out with, then forget her altogether. If she asks you whats up just dont spill your feelings out to her.
That bitch.

[JAB]

first of all FRIENDSHIP is not an investment. true friend doesn't ask anything in return.
may you have to gave him space. give her a chance to miss you.
are yuo sure that it is friendship that you after...

[Fiji4u]

Man feels like I was writing this question. haa Since I am in the same boat, here is my suggestion:
I think anyone in this situation has a right to be upset, but after going through this for 4 years. It seems like friendships are just totally up to choices. Sometimes we feel like we are getting rejected when all they want is a little space. Although sometimes we are really getting rejected and can't tell the difference. I beleive if you this friendship then you should fight for it. Honestly speaking if you just say, "do you want to be friends" is not gonna work cause you are gonna have to tell by tone and facial expressions. Though if you were to say I feel as if we are drifting apart and I don't want to lose this friendship, I think she will give you more of a clear answer. Whether she wants to be friends or not. Either way, friendships are like candles they look pretty; they feel nice; you always want to protect them, but sometimes you just need to stand back and see if it can really withstand all the wind.
Hope that helps you a little bit. Best of luck.