My boyfriend has been keeping secrets from me?

[Lilly]

I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, we're really really close to each other it's like we've known each other for a century, we even share our email/Facebook/twitter/Kik passwords with each other.
2 days ago he told me not to msg him on his Facebook account because he gave the password to his dad because he wants to use it for something. Well, today I logged into his account to check on something, I forget that his dad was using it and that I wasn't suppose to msg him or log into his account, and my eyes fell on a message from his mother, curiosity knocked into me and I read it and I found out she went into surgery last Monday, a really hard one, but he never told me that, he's been casual all week like nothing is going on.

Also his dad and home from another country, he works as an engineer there but I guess he's done with his job and he's looking for another one and he's currently unemployed, but my boyfriend never told me that, he said his dad is on a break from work.

[Alfonso]

You do NOT have the right, EVER, to know everything about anyone. I don't care if it's your boyfriend, husband, mother, or CHILD. They, also, have no right to know EVERYTHING about YOU. If you had found out that he was seeing someone else, that he lied to you to keep you from knowing he betrayed you, or for some EVIL reason, I can see your concern. THIS stuff that he's keeping from you is NOT a betrayal. He may have been TOLD not to tell ANYONE. You don't want to betray HIM, so let this go. If he is a good man, and he is good to you, eventually he WILL tell you about these things, right? So stop worrying about these 'secrets', they are NOT a betrayal, see? There are reasons he's not telling you and they are NOT evil reasons, so give him room. I'm glad to see that you are concerned, but think about if you had read something from another woman, or about HIM doing something that is illegal or foul (taking or selling bad drugs). When you start to give him more room, and move AWAY from him a little, he will counter that with wanting to be closer again. This is psychology, and it's manipulation, but it's NOT for an evil purpose, so use this.