What If I had a fall out?

[Gerardo]

I met this girl at a job I had over a year ago, I'm not going to lie, she had caught my eye from the very beginning. In spite of the fact that I still remember when I saw her for the first time I didn't start talking to her until much after. When we started talking she told me about her last relationship and how she needed time to heal, as a matter of fact I can remember the moment when she first told me that with precise detail. So as we talked she started growing on me but it being that I had just left a very painful relationship myself I decided not to tell her anything because I didn't want to rush into anything. I figured if I gave it time something would eventually happen between us, I was wrong. I remember texting her one night and jokingly telling her how all the guys at work were after her (but seriously, they were) and then she asked me "Are you one of them?" I remember my mind going blank, I didn't know what to respond. A few minutes after she had asked me that same question, another co-worker uploaded a photo on to facebook of him and her (the girl I liked) kissing. I can recall all the emotions that soared within me...rage, jealousy, anger, sadness, frustration, self-pity. Although I knew that there were guys after her during the time I was talking to her, she never told me she was seeing someone, much less someone at work. Right after I found out, I started distancing myself from her, no more late night texting, no more conversations, a simple hi and bye at work,mere distance. She would try to approach me and ask me what was wrong but I would lie to her and tell her I had things to do to avoid conversation. Eventually, I quit the job and ended up deleting her from my phone contacts and facebook friends expecting never to see her again. Time went by and I started work at another place and dating someone else as well. When I began dating this new girl (something which actually had a real bitter ending), the old girl (the one from my previous job) sent me a friend request on facebook, dumbfounded and not single anymore (at the time), I pretended I thought she was the one that deleted me, she told me that whatever she did wrong she was sorry. So we only talked for a couple of days and then I decided to delete her again but blocking her entirely this time because I was seeing someone else (and I think she was too). So time went by again and the relationship I was in ended turning into a huge fail and ended up at another job which is where I am right now. As the proverb goes "It is a small world" because this girl, the one whom I spent countless nights thinkig about, the one who at one time I held so much resentment towards to is now working in the same place I am at, AGAIN. We started talking again as if nothing had ever happened, every time I see her I'll greet her with a smile and a hug. I see her from time to time at work and make small talk (I ended up adding her on FB and to my phone contacts again), I know she has this sort of online relationship with someone in South America (We're in Mexico) but does not have someone physically by her side. I've made attempts to get close to her again but feel like I'm barking up the wrong tree and should just leave things as they are. See, my question is should I ask her for an apology? I feel like behaved like a douche but it was also due to the fact that I feel she gave me mixed signals or led me on. And if I decide to apologize how should I do it, I don't want to do it at work, I'm afraid of asking her out and I don't want to do it over facebook or texting but that little nagging voice in the back of my head says I should give this closure but I don't know how. Any suggestions would be helpful.

Thanks.

[elizabeth]

Just ignore the whole thing. You've moved on and she has too. Being a facebook friend doesn't mean you have to connect up again.