Caught boyfriend sending facebook messages to two different females on facebook. Please help!?

[Miranda]

In a nutshell, 2013 was a rough year for me. My parents moved across country, my car died, found out I have thyroid disorder, worked 6 days a week 12 hour shifts..was just tired, overwhelmed and didn't get to see my boyfriend much. Well, this past weekend, he left his phone on his end table. He was messaging his guy friend and I was close enough to see messages sent to two females. I couldn't help but grab his phone and the following is what I read: Hey, Hit me up to drink if u want. Ignore whatevr my facebook status shit says lol text me sometime if u want.
(the first one was october 26th
and november 10th was the second time he tried to talk to her) She never replied to him. He got mad, called me every name in the book and threw my purse out front on the ground. I left and haven't seen him since. He is now texting and calling telling me that he loves me and its not a big deal and the females were friends from 10 years ago and that he's sorry. I don't know what to do about him?!

[Ess Baby]

Tell him how exactly how that honestly makes you feel. You can't have a relationship without trust and definitely not without communication.

[Ruby Sierra]

There is something defiantly something so shady going on. If I were you I wouldn't keep my guard down with him.

[onefrndlyghst]

If he didn't have anything to hide, he wouldn't have acted like he did by getting mad, calling you every name in the book and throwing your purse on the ground. He was trying to be shady and he got caught, he was embarrassed. He was trying to hide something from the other girl as well. You deserve better. Any man worthy of your love should never try to hide you from anyone or anything. I know the easy thing to say is to leave him, but you have to decide what's in your heart and if you see a future with him. If you do, you need to set clear expectations and make sure he knows that he needs to earn back your trust....by being an open book.

Big hugs.