Why does no one respects me/ why does everyone hate me?

[Joao]

So, I've recently been thinking about some things in my life, and one of them was the fact that no one respected me.
I'm 14 years old boy, 9th grade and class' clown etc. I basically just try to make everyone laugh and happy, and it seems to work sometimes.
Now the problem...what do I get in exchange? Nothing. Just nothing.
I'm always there to help people on their darkest/happiest hours, I'm always there to serve as a company, I'm always trying to be friends with everyone, I'm always trying to get in any kind of groups, I'm always trying to teach things to my friends, I'm always trying to give ideas, I'm always trying to say/do something funny when my friends ask me to, I'm always there to defend anyone. What do I get?
Nothing.
Absolute fucking nothing.
If I don't do something funny for the guys, I get ignored/hated.
If I don't do something funny for the girls, I get ignored/hated.
2 nights, 2 fucking nights , I couldn't sleep for 2 nights, (this is gonna be the 3th) I literally just go to bed at 11 pm, cry for about 4-5 hours and then I have to wake up at 7 am for another day in hell.
I have a shit father who doesnt talk to me , I have a shit brother who doesn't talk to me, I have a shit mother that keeps 'pushing' even more my stress, I have shit friends that don't even bother to start a convo., or call me, or send me a msg on facebook or some shit (I'm always online and I know they are too, and each time I send someone a msg or when I get online, I see a bunch of people just going offline, and I know they don't have to go do anything), I have a shit family that don't even bother to gift me anything on my b-days.

If this continues like this, I don't think I wanna continue to live like this anymore. Fair enough, ey?

[Joseph]

It's 3rd btw, just letting you know.

Ok, lemme just tell you, this world is full of ***holes, and you're surrounded by them. At the end of school, you wont even be around them anyway, so might as well just leave it. Hey, I'm in your situation but I honestly do not care AT ALL. I'd rather be alone than with friends, less drama the way I see it.

Try fit into 1 specific group if you really want friends, the one you're closest too.

[THEperson]

I used to be just like you. Trying to please everyone, trying so hard. That shit doesn't work, man, trust me. I've been there.

What you wanna do, is stop pleasimg them, trying so hard and kissing their asses. They don't respect you because they don't take you seriously. The need defending or laughter at a hard time - woops, sorry couldn't make it, had something more important to do than to lick your asses.

You'll come out as a stronger, more independent individual. You stop licking their asses, they'll start kissing yours. They'll start missing the old you.

Worked for me, why not you?

And for christs sake, don't kill your self. Everytime you so much as think of it, your bullies score a goal in this game called life.

I've gone through the same thing, you ever need any more info, e-mail me: allujee@hotmail.fi

[Daniel]

Hey man, i feel ya there, i was in the exact some pos. but heres the best way to fix this issue.
Step 1. Finish this year the way you are, act like theres no big deal and just keep everybody happy
Step 2. Next year come back to school a whole new person, dont try fitting yourself into other groups ( Its gonna be hard but results are phenomenal) dont be the "Funny Guy" anymore, be serious and act mature, even though you may not be, act it. And instead of trying to make people laugh immediately if they're having a down day, talk about the issues
Step 3. So fuck ing what if you don't get anything for Christmas, C'est La Vie (Thats Life)
Step 4. The most important step of your situation-fixing is, Make New Friends, the so-called friends are actually friends, hate to break it to you. And you'll comb through who's actually friends with you or not when you change next year, your real friends will stick with you even if you dont try and make everybody laugh. I'm a 17 year old guy btw, Senior this year, and trust me i know exactly what you're going through.