I need answers!! I'm going crazy?

[XoxopoptartprincessXX]

So, I broke up with my abusive, cheating lying ex of three years about 2 months ago. ( he always broke up with me before this and made me beg and cry for him to come back, he even kicked me out of our house when i had no where to go and put his hands on me all because he was angry that his boss yelled at him at work). After our breakup he cursed me out and told me how he never loved me and how disposable I was. I left him alone and never came back like i usually do.I completely ignore his existence till this day. He later spread rumors about how I cheated on HIM which is a complete lie as i've never done that. I was the best girlfriend to him, even his family wanted us to marry. He ruined my relationship with a lot of mutual friends and family with his rumors but I tried being mature and letting it go. I ignored his annoyances and he blocked me on facebook. He also asked a mutual friend to tell me to give him his stuff back, which i neatly packed and left at his front door the day after he asked for his stuff back. He recently unblocked me and made his profile public as I could see him having a "great" life and reaading and flirting with all the girls he cheated on me with. Now he's seeing this other girl, she's not attractive at all, she is everything he said he would never date physically (no offense i'm really not shallow i just have to make it a point) but she lives in my apartment complex. It doesn't help either walking around giving me and attitude and dirty looking me like i did something to her. I'm always polite to her but she's always snickering and grilling me. I think that's so petty on her part. I don't want him back at all, he's all hers. I encounter him sooo many times throughout the week going to her apartment, they hang out in my building a lot. Also when i see him in public he purposely passes me like 4 times for no apparent reason (its obvious) but i pretend i don't see him. I ignore him like he doesn't even exist. He tries to show this new girl off to me indirectly but i don't even look, i'm honestly not even jealous I just want to know what his deal is. A few days ago, his friend (that I never usually talk to) called me to interrogate me about my breakup because apparently a mutual friend told my ex that I told her to tell my ex I asked about him (i never asked about my ex I want nothing to do with him) and told me that my ex called my old phone number (i changed my number after the breakup). Also the friend tells me over the phone that my ex was upset but he sounded like he wanted to speak to me. Also asking if i'm over him and I said yes I am and also asked if I was seeing anyone and I said no. I didn't give any details about the breakup, I just said I don't want to talk about it so the friend gets off the phone since I wasn't giving any details. I have no idea what's going on. Is this a set up? Why is he doing this? He then has the nerve to message me on Facebook to say "so and so said you wanted to speak with me?", I left the message on seen and I never replied back.

[princess]

You know what they say. Men like what they can't get.

[Owen]

He is a **** head and no girl deserves to be treated like this! Keep ignoring him, show him who the bigger person is but if he is constantly in your eye try and move away? If you can't don't worry just keep ignoring him and his trashy girlfriend, he will soon get bored that you haven't paid any attention to him! Goodluck

[Blue]

This guy is using his friends (or a fake FB profile) to stay in touch with and manipulate you further. I would completely block him & all his friends from your FB, block or change your number(s) and consider moving. His "deal" is that he is an experienced abuser. He knows how to hook you back in, even just for an argument. You must stop ALL contact from him, and if I were you, I would file a restraining order just to make it clear you're not screwing around anymore.

I would make plans to be away from them as often as possible. If they live in the same building, I would stay away from my own apartment as long and as often as I could just to avoid seeing him or her. Spend time at your parents or friends house for awhile, or go work out in evenings or take an art class or something. Either way, I would get a restraining order on him. Good luck!

[Ramon C]

This is beyond comprehension. You have asked and approved in your own way this abusive behavior. So, what are you complaining about? I really cannot follow the trend of thought because there is none. This is nothing but a collection of words that needed to come out of for a psychological and emotional cleansing. But as a message, it is a huge nothing. Sorry but this drama you present you have imposed upon yourself and apparently you are not done just yet. Enjoy.

[Sue C]

It's almost as if he's bored, so is trying to drum up something with you again to put a bit of excitement into his life!! Honey, don't even allow him to get to you. There's nothing behind it or no reason for it. Do as you've been doing, keep him out of your life & do your best to keep ignoring him. Your past is forever gone, but your future is still your own. Don't let him upset you anymore, he's done his fare share of that, that's for sure. Just do your best to keep a distance from both he & his girlfriend & out of your mind as much as you possibly can. He'll get bored at you not replying back to him, you not responding to his whims. In time he'll leave you alone again. Until that time, don't let him get into your personal space. I just think he's trying to make your life miserable as he can see how well you're doing. Keep it up, you're doing a great job...the best to you, honey...