Why is my exs current "girl" still adding me on Facebook?

[Kelsey Marie]

So my ex's new girl, I wouldn't even call her his gf because I don't think it's even official sent me a friend request awhile ago. I accepted it bc I don't really care then the next day she deletes me. I find it very strange. it's been practically a year since we broke up, things ended badly and when we did break up he began to beg for me back. I denied him of course, we didn't talk for a while. We hooked up one time after he'd been blowing my phone up for months but that's it because I found out he was supposedly seeing this girl and I think she found out but I had reassured her it meant nothing to me and I was done seeing him. On top of that her and her friends would go to the same bars as me and try and trip me and be very petty when I'm out, then when I would confront her over the issue she would say she had no problem with me. It's just the weirdest thing. She even offered to get my drink for me when the bar was crowded! It makes no sense. I really could care less of him and everyone knows that, I'm just a bit confused of why she even sent me a request after I accepted it and she deleted me once. I haven't responded to her request for over a month and she just now went on, canceled it and re sent another one! Like what? I haven't even spoken to my ex? facebook is facebook to me, I kinda want to add her to show her that i'm not threatened, I just need another persons point of view.

[Lacey]

There's no need for you to add her. Send her a message and tell her that you don't see the point of friending each other. She probably just wants to see what you're doing on Facebook to cause some drama.

Your bitterness also shows here because by your timeline of things that happened, she has been seeing this guy for a while, so she is his girlfriend whether or not you want to acknowledge that. If I were you, I would be looking for a new bar for me and my friends to hang out in.

One more thing...if you run into her and her friends and she offers to get your drink in a crowded bar, don't agree to it. You never know what could be put into a drink when it's out of your sight. This is also another good reason find a new hangout in order to stay clear of her and her friends.