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Future friends advice..?
02-26-2014, 05:30 AM
Post: #1
Future friends advice..?
Ok this may sound like a weird question,
But like when I'm older Would I drift away from my friends?
Like when we each get our lives when we're older, how would I be able to be in contact?
I mean I have TWO special Friends and I don't want to lose them, I mean I am pretty close to them since I know them for about 7 years now...
Any advice? I mean we all have friendship necklaces... We still have about 4 years to be together...
Are YOU lot still In touch with your friends?
I'm just worried about what will happen in the future... I know we all have to move on and go our separate ways, but Memories will always stay....
Am I just sort of worried? I just don't want to stay alone in the future... (if you get me)

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02-26-2014, 05:38 AM
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The fact of the matter is that as you grow, you may develop different interests than your friends. It's natural to spread apart a little. That's not to say you will drift away. If it's really important to you, then make sure you regularly get to spend time together. I had a lot of close friends during high school, but there's only one I regularly keep in contact with, and we make a point of seeing each other once a week because we're best friends. Every now and then we'll cancel, which is completely okay. Don't force yourself on anyone. Just work at it, and you'll all be fine.

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02-26-2014, 05:49 AM
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Yes, I think that you are just sort of worrying. I have 4 best friends that I can call on at any time and they can do the same. I live in Georgia, one lives in New York, one lives in Miami, One lives in Detroit and the other lives in the Caribbean. My friend in Detroit and I have been friends for over 25 years now and the others much much longer. I think you get the drift. The key is to always stay in touch no matter what. Even though I am married with children we are still close friends. We call each other for birthdays, anniversaries, celebrations and heart aches. And with so much social media it is a lot easier now than then. And even if you lose those friends somewhere along the line you can always make more. “Friendship is born at that moment when one man says to another: "What! You too? I thought that no one but myself . . ."” ― C.S. Lewis I'm sure you will have a lot of these :-)
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