Blocked by partner on social media?

[A]

My fiancé and I are taking a break...his choice...he wants a few months to focus on himself and his problems...I disagree with it, but agreed anyway. He also said he promises we will be together after he gets his help and says it will be much better. However he blocked me on all social media. I told him I would not sit and wait through his break and be acting like I'm still in a relationship if he was going to act single. He wants to communicate though, but nothing online. How would you take this? To me the blocking is a deal breaker, he says I'm overreacting.

[Beth]

Be straight with him. Why did he block you?
Tell him if he isn't man enough to deal with his problems and be with you,then you are going to break up with him. Being together means going through hardships together. If he WANTS to spend his life with you he would tell you WHY he needs a break,WHAT is bothering him and WHERE his problems came from.

Its the basic What,Why and Where of a relationship.

[Crankitty]

Dealbreaker. The only reason for this break is for him to try out other options. Walk.

[Hurricain]

His "break" is obviously going to include testing the waters with another woman, or women. He has blocked you on social media because if you had access to his social media you'd find evidence that he is seeing other women.

Do yourself a favor, and make this a PERMANENT break.

[Kurt]

You are either in a relationship or you're not. Figure that out and go from there.

[495]

He's trolling for booty.

[Bentley]

If I needed a break, I might feel uncomfortable that the person I am taking the break from is watching in. Maybe that's all it is

[Lost Girl]

Sounds like a real jerk who doesn't appreciate you..I think he is tired of you and bored of you. Wants to find new girls and a new life without you, to see if it feels better but still wants you around just in case he changes his mind..That happend to me with my ex. It's easy to just blame him all the time but really, sometimes, he doesn't know what he as until it's gone. That's probably what he needs. A wake up call. If he is young and hasen't tested the waters yet then how would he know that being with you is what he wants? He probably is confused and feels trapped, and does love you, but wants to venture out into the world without you for a little bit, to see if there is something better off out there. If not, he would always have that "what if" thoughts... so to get it off his chest he is taking a break from you for that reason. If he does come back , Im sure he would be a better partner to you because he had the chance to venture out and see for himself that the grass ain't really greener on the other side... Until then.. you need to be strong and let him do his own thing. I suggest you move on too. And don't wait for him. Let him do whatever he wants even if its means sleeping with girls, because he'/s young and needs to experience life and see what options are out there. Maybe he will realize that he does want to be with you, maybe he won't. But one thing for sure is this is a break that you both need. Because why would you want to hold on to someone that doesn't want to hold on to you? If they are right for you, they will be right for you when the time is right. Right now, the time for him is not right, he needs to explore the world a little more to be confident in himself that he is making the right decision by being with you. If you hold on a like a little puppy, that will push him away even further. You need to move on, date other men, sleep with other men, and forget about him for now. Maybe in the future when he is ready he will come back with more experience and clarity about the relationship...but maybe by then you wont want him back !