Why did she change? I'm starting to get annoyed?

[Anne]

She was my best friend and she was always there to support me and I was also always there to support her emotionally. Things that she would suggest would always bring me happiness. The oy thing with her was that she had such a douche bag boyfriend. He did drugs and never worked and absued my friend from time to time. She paid rent and even when they had to move out, I was the one helping her move and not him. He was out playing poker.

Anyway, I'm not the bright intelligent type that can suggest stuff and etc, but she's always made me happy, so I'd try my best to try and help her by giving her rides everywhere and giving her gifts when I went on vacation and I've even cooked before for her and her boyfriend. She's never helped me in the materialistic sense but always was there for me emotionally whether it be by phone or whatever.

Anyway, from about a few months ago, she just stopped talking to me about her life and she's also stopped supporting me. We don't live nearby but we've always texted throughout the years. From a few months ago, she completely stopped telling me about her life but she'll ask me about mine. I get all happy when she texts and tell her what's been going on by text but she never responds or gives me her opinion on anything. She just doesn't have anything to say and I ask her what she's been up to and she doesn't respond. A few weeks later, it's the same thing. She'll ask me what I've been up to so I tell her and then she doesn't say anything and the conversation stops. I told (texted) her about it once but she had nothing to say.

I used to send her birthday cards and a gift and stuff and always greet her for holidays but honestly, I started getting tired of all this because of her behavior. I stopped. She still texts merry Christmas so I only respond merry Christmas back. Honestly, I don't think there's much to the friendship anymore and I'd rather her not text me anymore. It's getting to be annoying. Also, I noticed that I've been showing her my Facebook page and posts but I can't seem to see anything on her wall.

What is going on here? What should I do?

[nia]

Seems to me that her message is pretty clear. Ive been in this situation before. The friend just up and decides that they don't want you involved in their life anymore. it hurts but it definitely happens. all you can do is wish them well and move on with your life. BUT learn from this as well. Be careful who you befriend.

[Pearl L]

if you dont see anything on her wall she probably blocked you, dont sound like she wants to be friends

[Alema Pequoia]

Nia and Pearl both have good answers, but there's something else you might want to consider. You said your friend had occasionally been abused by her boyfriend. It may be that he has succeeded in cutting her contact off from her friends and family so that she is even more under his thumb and so that she has even less chance of getting away from him. In other words, he may still be abusing her and trying to make sure she doesn't leave him (so he has to support himself) or receive any help. You might want to see if you can find out if this is the case.
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[Common Sense]

Take a few steps back as she obviously does not value your friendship as much as she used to. When people stop sharing their lives, it means they are trying to back away by protecting their privacy and keeping personal matters from being shared.

What is wrong with picking up the telephone and using only numbers on the keypad to make a phone call? Texting is such a casual way to "talk" and it is impossible to have any sort of meaningful conversation through text. SO< TALK TO HER> if you want to get to the bottom of this situation. Otherwise you will just have to accept that you and she have basically parted from a closer relationship to just that of an acquaintance relationship.