My Dad and my friend have flirty chats with each other on Facebook. Is it too far?

[Anna Thompson]

Hi everyone,

Well, I'm 23 and recently when i was using my dads computer i found out he has a folder where he stores flirty messages and video chats he has with one of my friends(!!) who is also the same age.

I know they added each other on facebook which i thought was a bit weird but this is completely beyond the mark.

It looks wrong but it isn't far enough..kind of. He's 54 and still married to my mom so it makes me uncomfortable.
Like, in his messages to her he tells her she's pretty, she looks beautiful in this outfit, or wearing this make up and they laugh and flirt but doesn't get any more explicit.

In their video chats shes always showing lots of cleavage or even lying down in a mini skirt/shorts so he can see her bare legs. She's all giggling and provocative and trying to tease him and unfortunately he looks like he's really lusting after her in a sexual way, and always hints at it to her.

Is this type of messages and video chat going too far? I don't mind them being friends on Facebook but this seems to be a bit much. She's attractive and has worked in nightclubs etc so maybe she's trying to bait him for money?

[zhr]

This already sounds wrong when your dad keeps a folder of chat snapshots of him and your friend. I'll not comment the obvious, but back to your question, yes it is too far.

[OneToughCookiee]

You need to talk to her about it. Just tell her exactly what you told us about how you feel about this. Say "Look, We all know you're really hot and everything, but this is my DAD your messing with. Do you think you can lay off a little bit? It's making me uncomfortable and you know he's still married with my mom, right? It would mean a lot to me if you stopped flirting with him. Please?"

I'm sure if you tell her how you truly feel about it and if she was a true friend she'd back off.


Good luck. (:

[Chris Q.T.]

lol maybe xDDDD

I have to tell ur mom I'm telling u ... tell ur mom before it gets worse

u choose the experience of the creations you chose for urself ;D

[hamid]

yes it is too far , dont talk to your dad about that it's going to be really awkward for both , i'd say go talk to your ''friend'' say that it's not a good idea that he is your dad and still married, back off ! she'll understand that if she care about you

[Ryan]

WOMEN IN WHO SHOW SKIN ARE ATTRACTIVE
but only if thin

[Michelle S.]

That's crazy. Confront them both...