How can one avoid a friend's girlfriend?

[Adam]

This girl is honestly the most obnoxious girl I've ever met in my life. She's just one of those incredibly clingy and unnecessarily loud/high pitched and dramatic people. My friend can't be without her for 20 minutes without getting a call, and it can't be texting oh no, because she needs more attention than that. So every time I'm with this friend - which isn't often mind you because he's barely allowed out without her - he still ends up on the phone with her the whole time.

But that's his business, what isn't is the fact that she's taken a special interest in me in a couple ways because I'm gay. So apparently I like totally care that she like just can't get her hair to do this flippy thing she wants omg, and we need to go shopping like every weekend, and watch like The Notebook omg<3 together, it goes on, and on. But on the other hand, she's also extra b*tchy with me because apparently I'm inclined to just jump her boyfriend. As she puts it, I should feel really special and lucky that I even get to be friends with him anymore since she pretty much made him cut off his girl friends. So you can understand why this girl makes me want to just hang myself. And there is no escape. She got my number from his phone she demands total access to, found my facebook and pouted for days to everyone when I didn't add her immediately, and comes to my work as a customer regularly and demands my attention there.

So I'm desperate and need suggestions before I just start looking for a good reliable rope.

[broadwaygonnabe]

Tell her to get lost. Your friend's dating her, not you, and it's weird that she clings to you just as badly as she does to your friend. She needs to respect YOUR boundaries even if she isn't respecting his

[kitty_grape]

Sounds like you she has some insecurity issues and needs a lot of attention. I think you should talk to you friend if you can get him alone and explain how its affecting you and tell don't forget to mention that your happy he found someone but she needs to learn boundaries. If you have other concerns just make sure you break it to him gently and try not to insult her because it might backfire! Hope this helps